I've always wanted to be a varsity swimmer but I could never be fast or strong enough. My swim team didn't accept or respect me as a varsity swimmer. I overcame this by powering through the pool and the gym during the off season. I expressed diligence and commitment during the off season to be a varsity swimmer. It took 4 years to get there but I finally am able to call myself a varsity swimmer. And it couldn’t have come at a better time. As anyone knows finding friends you click with is very hard in high school, especially if you're extremely tall and a little socially awkward. I lost a few "good" friends that I thought were going to be there for me whenever I needed them. Some of them I lost to drugs and alcohol. I was one of the few in my group who stayed sober and off drugs. My good friend Trevor and I started going to youth group and found common ground with others in our youth group. Even though we were ridiculed for leaving our old friends, it worked out in the end.
Girls were the worst in rejections I have faced. During my freshman and sophomore year I constantly chased girls and asked them to hang out slowly realizing that girls don't like people who bug them. They want guys who just chill and talk to them when they want to. That taught me