I agree that the word "sugar mama" is a derogatory term that I shouldn't of used and normally don't, but found somewhat fitting in the "playful" context of this situation. If you look at the previous post, I was clearly trying to be helpful. The difference in the second post was the slight change in tone. I posed the question (in a somewhat snarky and playful way) asking you if you were looking for a "sugar mamma." I never stated this was the case. My reasons for doing this was for you to reanalyze what you had written and clarify. Honestly, when you used the term women who "run in my circles" and wanting women to "treat" you, I found these statements somewhat close-minded and snobby, which bothered me frankly. On one hand, I
I agree that the word "sugar mama" is a derogatory term that I shouldn't of used and normally don't, but found somewhat fitting in the "playful" context of this situation. If you look at the previous post, I was clearly trying to be helpful. The difference in the second post was the slight change in tone. I posed the question (in a somewhat snarky and playful way) asking you if you were looking for a "sugar mamma." I never stated this was the case. My reasons for doing this was for you to reanalyze what you had written and clarify. Honestly, when you used the term women who "run in my circles" and wanting women to "treat" you, I found these statements somewhat close-minded and snobby, which bothered me frankly. On one hand, I