I was nourished with love from my umbilical cord in my mother’s warm womb, spoon fed when I was able to feed and hand held when I could walk; I was akin to my parents from my conception, as I was their child. But, soon I was riding a bicycle by myself while my father stood and watch, I was placed on the school bus by myself while my mother waved me goodbye, in less than a year, my parents together will send me off to school by myself. From a tender age, still being a mere child, my parents have engraved the nature of independence in me, a key quality of maturity. An essential proponent of the transition to adulthood is obtaining true independence.…
Tobias Wolff’s highly accredited novel, ‘ This Boys Life’ explores truth and lies through the use of various scenarios and characters in a cliché “American dream” teenage world.…
In the essay “Tweens: Ten Going On Sixteen” written by Kay S. Hymowitz the author argues that preadolescent children between the ages of 8-12 years , who are also called tweens , are going through early social maturation . The author argues that tweens become teenagers without undergoing a preadolescent period . This journal will evaluate the idea presented by Hymowitz in the essay that tweens are becoming more inclined towards crime and violence.…
Young people are most often guided by their parents and guardians of what they should or shouldn’t do. However, some unfortunate ones are left alone to find their own paths. In their search of making their own destiny; some young people choose to fight against all obstacles to reach goals that will lead to a successful fortune, while some will walk an uneasy way and repeat themselves in the misery of self-destructiveness and self-sabotaging behaviors. In Tobias Wolff’s memoir This Boy’s Life, the author presents a life that is built up on continuous self-destructive decisions; making himself his own worst enemy and causing all kinds of pitiful situations which he hopes to change and evolve into a better self, only to once again find him fallen into the very trap set up by no one but himself.…
felt lost in a world where they had already been left out and left behind.…
The environment people are put in often dictates their actions and reactions, which in turn shape who they are. Additionally, when a person is constantly degraded by their surroundings, it has a large, sweeping impact on their formation as a person. Bruce Weigl’s poem “Burning Shit at An Khe” is a manifestation of this concept of how people are products of their environments. Through diction, tone, and mood, Weigl conveys the message that it is not what a person does, rather how things are done unto them, that defines who they are.…
After being in a market for X amount of years and being successful, other people will try to get in to get a piece of the pie. We have seen this over the years with numerous different products / services. One that I can think of off the top of my head was the evolution of online media. I remember as a kid when AIM “AOL Instant Messenger” was the coolest way to communicate with your friends and family. A couple years after that MySpace was introduced to the public and that went viral as well. Today we have numerous sites such as Twitter, Facebook, Myspace is actually still around as well, Instagram, and so on. The point that I’m making is eventually you will encounter competition and as time goes on ideas are constantly being used up!…
In this novel Matthew Quick made it a clear lesson that you should never judge a person before you get to know them. Boy 21 is about a boy named Finley. Finley loves to play basketball with his girlfriend Erin and is the starting point guard for his school. He doesn’t talk a lot because his mother died when he was young. Finley was given the job of looking after a new kid named Russ Washington. He doesn’t really want to because Russ calls himself Boy21 and 21 is Finley’s basketball number so it makes him worried. Coach wanted him to do this because he thinks Finley is a nice kid and that he and Russ will have something in common due to the fact that Russ’s parents were murdered just like Finley’s mom. Russ is also wonderful at basketball and…
“The Perpetual Adolescent” is an observational piece by Joseph Epstein. He suggests that modern adult acts much more childish than the previous generations of middle aged people. A big part of acting like a younger person is dressing like a younger person. According to Epstein, the dressed down adult is the immature adult, which in turn leads to many adults trying to copy the modern and hip youth culture. This in turn created more relaxed environments across all career fields, leaving less “true” adults. He feels that American now want to stay young forever instead of maturing into the adults of their parent's generations. Epstein believes that this mentality is flawed, leaving the people in positions of power striving to act like their children.…
In Leon Botstein’s op-ed article “Let Teenagers Try Adulthood”, originally published in the New York Times Magazine on May 11, 1999, president of Bard College Botstein argues that modern high schools are inefficient and should be eradicated because it doesn’t exemplify the real world. After the Littleton shooting in Colorado, former and current high school students share stories about how popular and athletic students, as well as teachers, dominate high schools. Using the Littleton Killers as an example, he shows that students are failing to realize the torment of high school is temporary and doesn’t extend to adulthood. High school is an age-segregated community in which low quality teachers cause education to have little control over these…
The “Tweens” essay was very interesting and something most girls can relate to. The title couldn’t be truer. Even though this essay is a little old the idea is still the same. Young girls today are trying to act older than they are. The title “Tweens: Ten Going on Sixteen” really relates to the story because so many young girls act like they are sixteen. The author talks about them wearing makeup, crimes, and an increase in sex among younger children. These are all problems we face with young children trying to act older than they actually are.…
The TV show I have chosen to talk to you about today is Puberty Blues. It is aired at 8:30pm, Wednesday on channel 10. It doesn't have a specific genre, but more like a mixture. I would classify it as a teen drama. Puberty Blues doesnt work in plot twists but offers a suprising reality. The best part about the TV drama for me is how we get a glimpse into the life of a 1970's teenager.…
Explain how emerging Adults make the transition to higher education and work (Papalia, Feldman, & Martorell, 2014). When I initially thought about going to college, I was fifty years old. The truth is I am a License Chemical Dependency Counselor (LCDC), and have been in the counseling field for about eighteen years at the time. My manager and I were completing my annual review I was told without a degree my salary could not increase. My first thought was I am too old attended college. My manager educate me on something I was not aware, they could take my license however, my degree cannot. That did change the fears of returning to school since it had been thirty two years.…
Do you remember the transition between being a teenager and becoming an adult? Not wanting to grow up and face the world on your own? I remember as a child I was unsure of what my life would consist of without my parents. Transitioning between having a silver spoon in my mouth to not depending on them. When I was a child, I was so naïve of the world not knowing anything of what life consist of. My entire childhood revolved around the idea that my life would always be easy, full of games, and not one single problem would ever be big enough to affect my life. Little did I know, the life I imagined would not be the case, and I would have to acknowledge that the sugar coating I had around life would eventually dissolve. During my early years of high school, my only concern was to fornicate with as many girls as possible, but as I started to get older my responsibilities started to expand. The last year of high school was my turning point, having to decide what career to pursue, what college I’d have to attend, and how to pay for my tuition along with rent. After graduating high school reality struck me, the idea of a perfect…
1 Timothy 4-12 states (ESV), “Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.” This stage was the most influential stage of growth and development in my life. During adolescent years, healthy development is imperative. In adolescent years, the frontal cortical develops in which contributes to the refinement of reasoning, goal and priority setting, impulse control, and evaluating long and short term rewards (Crews, He, & Hodge, 2007, p. 189). My adolescence years brought much hardship; however, it displayed my strength and resilience. Facing death at this age was not fully understandable. Death was my biggest fear and this fear forever changed my life the day my grandmother passed away rocking my foundation. Still, after 17 years since her passing the tears fall from my eyes every year on her birthday. She was my rock and for many years overcoming this lost seem unattainable. Revelation 21:4 (KJV) says, “And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are…