As most parents rear their kids, they put up a curtain which aims to block their children from worries and violence. While it may be the instinctional path, both Gemma and I want to understand our parents and take a glimpse at their personal struggles to help guide them as they guide us. In “Able, Baker, Charlie, Dog”, Stephanie Vaughn writes from a twelve-year-old’s perspective to emphasize the blurred view Gemma has of her parents. When Gemma talks with her mother about going through puberty Gemma observes that “[her mother] must have known immediately what the problem was, but she did not smile.” (41) Her mother conceals her own humor to try to be an ideal mom but it hinders the connection which Gemma seeks to grow with her mother. Her father also puts up a guiding facade for Gemma. Throughout the story, Gemma remarks on his voice as “deep and soothing” as well as “a huge cathedral…full of volume and complexity.” (42 & 38) A “huge cathedral” makes people feel small and ‘lesser than’ which mirrors the father’s intentions of distracting from his emotions and alcoholism in order to be a leader of the household. Gemma does not get to connect to her parents until she observes them when they do not think that she is
As most parents rear their kids, they put up a curtain which aims to block their children from worries and violence. While it may be the instinctional path, both Gemma and I want to understand our parents and take a glimpse at their personal struggles to help guide them as they guide us. In “Able, Baker, Charlie, Dog”, Stephanie Vaughn writes from a twelve-year-old’s perspective to emphasize the blurred view Gemma has of her parents. When Gemma talks with her mother about going through puberty Gemma observes that “[her mother] must have known immediately what the problem was, but she did not smile.” (41) Her mother conceals her own humor to try to be an ideal mom but it hinders the connection which Gemma seeks to grow with her mother. Her father also puts up a guiding facade for Gemma. Throughout the story, Gemma remarks on his voice as “deep and soothing” as well as “a huge cathedral…full of volume and complexity.” (42 & 38) A “huge cathedral” makes people feel small and ‘lesser than’ which mirrors the father’s intentions of distracting from his emotions and alcoholism in order to be a leader of the household. Gemma does not get to connect to her parents until she observes them when they do not think that she is