These feelings will make people hard to know more about their own identification. Human beings are sensuous animal, so they are always easy to be injured due to the past, and because they suffered from the unbearable things, they would be hard to keep calm and being lost and immensely. Stout illustrates her patient’s argument in seven-eleven store with a cashier due to the change that: “the way the cashier looked at me – it was just the way my stepfather used to like I was stupid like I was dirty. I knew he was not my stepfather, but all the feelings were there anyway, after a minute, I left without my money” (Stout, P433). Although it clear that she knows cashier is not her father, she cannot control himself and feel lost and extremely afraid. This is the behavior reflex, which is in an individual’s deep mind. Therefore, it even, trigger her “flyaway self-thing” which is her hid abasement or inferiority. The symbolic connection makes people cannot get rid of this instinct, which will generate the old negative emotion. When they think they are already dealing with that, the symbolic connections’ appearance would recall them and back to the past. In other word, People will get trouble with this infinity loop. Because of the afraid, people will always refuse to accept themselves but accumulate what they are told. Therefore, they are hard to clear their own sense of
These feelings will make people hard to know more about their own identification. Human beings are sensuous animal, so they are always easy to be injured due to the past, and because they suffered from the unbearable things, they would be hard to keep calm and being lost and immensely. Stout illustrates her patient’s argument in seven-eleven store with a cashier due to the change that: “the way the cashier looked at me – it was just the way my stepfather used to like I was stupid like I was dirty. I knew he was not my stepfather, but all the feelings were there anyway, after a minute, I left without my money” (Stout, P433). Although it clear that she knows cashier is not her father, she cannot control himself and feel lost and extremely afraid. This is the behavior reflex, which is in an individual’s deep mind. Therefore, it even, trigger her “flyaway self-thing” which is her hid abasement or inferiority. The symbolic connection makes people cannot get rid of this instinct, which will generate the old negative emotion. When they think they are already dealing with that, the symbolic connections’ appearance would recall them and back to the past. In other word, People will get trouble with this infinity loop. Because of the afraid, people will always refuse to accept themselves but accumulate what they are told. Therefore, they are hard to clear their own sense of