Terminally Ill Patients Summary

Working with Terminally Ill Patients When we pass on, into the later life we often think that our dying wishes would be our last words. However, that is not always true. While reading an article titled “Psychopharmacological Agents for the Terminally Ill and Bereaved.” Written by Goldberg, Ivan K.; Malitz, Sidney; Kutscher, Austin H. The above-mentioned article states that the last wishes that a human being cares for are not always followed. While reading this article, the theory used, is the person-centered theory. Meaning that this is more of a personal issue. That one needs to handle through time. While reading the text, Counseling and psychotherapy, 4/e, 2003, the books states that “the best way to achieve the clients trust, is
to be there, not doing it for the patient.” Meaning that the clinician is there as a backbone, while the patient vents how they feel. Both the patient and the clinician will find ways to heal ease the pain of loosing a loved one. The person-centered therapy seems to be the best way to help a patient while dealing with this type of lost.
As a therapist, we need to sit back and listen, to the patient, and be there for them. As counselors, we need to be ready to give support and helpful tips while the patient is coping with many different stress levels. In reading this article by Goldberg, I see that he does not directly give out set advice, I seen that he gives suggestions. While researching this method farther, I read that it is best for a therapist to listen, and then offer suggestions on ways of reliving built up stress. A therapist cannot say “Go out and play Tennis, it greatly reduces stress” However, a therapist can say, Do you play any out door activities? If so have you noticed if your stress levels go up or down?” This method, seems to be very
helpful. If I were terminally ill, I would like my therapist to be there as a “Pole” so to speak. I would like them there to listen, and to give me suggestions on my life. Suggestions in the way I could full fill my dreams, and make up for the hurt that I have caused others at one point in time. I would seek “Forgiveness”. Mostly I would truly like to have someone on a neutral basis to listen to me, while I vent my frustrations. I would like a therapist or counselor to help me with the hard decisions in life. As well as help me find supporting agencies to help with funding, if needed, education about my disease, ways that my family can and will not benefit, things that I can do before my passing. The little things that we as humans often do not think of, until it is to late. As a clinician, I believe that they most pose unconditional positive regards.
Meaning that at all times the therapist/counselor listens, and does their job at all time. I believe that the best ways a therapist can show this feature would be not to interrupt, to listen to every detail, give suggestions when needed, and most of all, keep an open mind to what ever they may hear. I also believe that possessing a feature such as positive regards is a vital asset. I say this because the patient can find more trust, and belief in your words. As a therapist, I would like to know that my patients felt 100% safe while talking to me at all times. I would like to ensure that no matter what the patient feels confident, and self aware of their surroundings. I believe that the more comfortable the patient, the more information they will share with you. If a patient does not feel the positive influences, then ask yourself, why would a patient come back to see you. I believe that the reoccurring patients would mean a great deal to therapist, and the patients. For that is a forever relationship that is building and bonding. Through time, the patient and the therapist will have found numerous ways to help the client through the dilemmas that life has dealt
them.