Sethe does have a memory of the one time her mother came, picked her up, and carried her behind the smokehouse. There, she showed her daughter the brand of the circle and cross burnt into the skin under her breast. She told Sethe that she was
"...the only one got this mark now...the …show more content…
When Sethe asked for the same mark, however, her mother had slapped her, because although it was the best she could give her, her identity was irrevocably determined by slavery, and the mark on her skin was the sign of her bondage. Sethe did not understand the implications of her mother's act at the time; she only fathomed its implications later, when she was forced by her present owners to have "a mark of (her) own." The full impact of her mother's act in showing Sethe the mark on her skin also became clear later. Intestimony to the realization that her life was essentially worth nothing, and that she would likely die because of terrible and potentially disfiguring abuse, Sethe's mother had