For ladies, cocktail or formal dresses, or the military equivalent is expected. Modern day mess culture allows for the advance esprit de corps, a setting for members of the regiment to dine together and gives an opportunity for personal guests and official guests of the mess to be formally entertained.
There are many customs and traditions that accompany a Dining in Night, these include, Chair for Fallen Comrades, Dining Vice President, passing the Port, Toast, Grace and required dress. It is up to the individual to uphold the customs and traditions and behave in a respectful manner throughout the