80% of all rapes happen to women who are under the age of 25, according to the U.S. Department of Justice. Rape is the most underreported crime in the United States. Why do people choose to keep these acts of violence to themselves instead of coming out and telling people what happened to them? Fear. That is why these crimes are hidden. Mary didn’t tell anyone because she was afraid of what it would do to her family. Her family was very close to the family of her rapist. She decided she should keep it to herself, and she thought that she was protecting her family. What she was really doing was making things worse for herself. Nine percent of victims say that they do not report their rapists because they knew the person and did not want to ruin their lives (Global News, …show more content…
The contention that rape should be regarded as an asexual act has done nothing to remedy this. Nor will it. As activist and writer Wendy McElroy points out, "there can be as many motives for rape as there are for murder and other violent crimes … Rape is every bit as complex." Insisting that no rape is ever "about" sex but is rather about an individual man acting on a patriarchal mandate to sow terror by exercising "power" does a disservice to us all. (qtd. in Baker)
The essay opened people up to having honest conversations about rape, instead of suppressing it. Katie J.M. Baker states that rape should not be discussed in a “vacuum.” She wants people to take the discussions past the vacuum, where it will be opened up to a new audience.
There is no solid reason as to why people rape. Some do it for the thrill, some do it under peer pressure, and some people do it without realizing what they are really doing. Just like Mary, there are many rape victims out in the world. If rape awareness continues to spread, people just like Mary will get the ending they deserve. Rape is not something that should be pushed under the rug, but it should be something that is looked into the eyes and taken care