Mark E. Millage Jr.
Kaplan University
HN220
The first thing I would do in this case would be to introduce myself and let Mike and Sally know that I am going to do my best to get them through this rough time in their lives. I would then ask them both to tell me how they feel and try to better understand the situation and build rapport with the both of them. After this I would begin to deal with how Sally is feeling because it seems as though she is taking the loss much harder than her husband Mike. I would have Sally explain to Mike how she feels about what has happened and try to get him to understand her point of view to do this I would have to utilize role playing meaning that I would have Mike play the role of Sally and vice versa. While this was going on I would continue to comfort them and reassure them that everything is going to be alright and that it takes time to get through a loss such as this. According to Kubler-Ross’ theory it appears that Sally is going through the denial and shock stage as well as the bargaining and anger stage. This is evident because according to Mike Sally keeps praying and asking god to take her and bring back their son. One intervention that I would attempt here is to have them both talk about the loss and help them to identify and express their feelings about the loss. Mike is Sallie’s support system so we need to help him to understand what it is that Sally is going through and that she is grieving differently than he is and that eventually with the help of therapy and love she will pull through this. The way that I would do this is by walking Mike through the different steps of the grieving process. I would explain to him that according to the Kubler-Ross 5 stages of death and dying. The first one is Denial and Shock. I would explain to him that Sally is currently experiencing this stage and reassure him that it is ok for her to feel this way. The second