If a manager abuses an employee, and the employee tells the abusing manager’s manager, the upper level manager may have the mindset that managers always support their managers. The upper level manager may tell the abusing manager to handle the situation. Then, the abusing manager, with the support of the upper level manager, often terminates the employee the manager has abused. Consequently, speaking up can be unsafe for the employee who is the recipient of abuse. If an upper level manager does have the mindset that managers always support their managers, the upper level manager may be supporting a manager with a mental health disorder. While not all managers who are abusive have a mental health disorder, some may have one. Statistics show more than one in five Americans have a mental health disorder, yet only 16% seek treatment. Also, approximately 5% of the U.S. population has a serious mental illness. Many states allow employers to terminate an employee without cause. When an abused employee tells the abusing manager’s manager about the abuse, if the abusing manager perceives the abused employee as a troublemaker, he or she may terminate the employee.
Some employees who are the recipients of abuse may lack the skills or incentive to leave an abusive work situation because the abuse reminds them of family of- origin issues where they experienced repeated abuse. As a result, the employee believes that abusive experiences are everywhere, so he or she has no incentive to leave.