Picture this. A child is playing to the best of his ability and giving 100% effort, people all around notice that number 28 is never in the at all. The timer buzzes and the game is over, and came to a close. The coach hands out the trophies. The child’s name is called, right after number 28 is. Other people’s children feel awful because they put in all their effort and the coach gave the worst player on the team a trophy too. It really hurts the kid’s feelings. In addition to kids feeling bad that everyone got one, It’s not even the trophies that continue to motivate the players, it’s the appreciation that keeps players going. When the coach and the kids grow a strong bond and the he is always there to cheer them on, that is what matters to the kids. They don’t need the trophies, they need a coach who cares and who appreciates them.
Some would argue that having all the kids get a trophy is showing the kid that they completed the season and that they did good, In reality the trophy is for getting through the season with hard work and doing good. Not for doing bad. Remember the next time kids go and play a game and get a trophy, Think! The kids lives will not work like that in the future, and the trophies will not be as important when everyone gets one. Everyone shouldn’t get trophies. Instead of having everyone get a trophy, the people who try should get the trophy. Talk to a coach