Why do women experience a lessening of lubrication? There are many factors that can affect female sex drive. Some factors are obvious, while others are definitely not. Age, life, energy level and hormones all play a part in boosting female libido and if one or more of those factors are not functioning well, her libido could take a nose dive.
How To Make Her Wet And How Can You Help
(1) Make her feel comfortable
A big part of a woman's sexual satisfaction is very dependent on her state of mind. She must feel sexy in order to feel sexual. If she is not in the mood, find out what is on …show more content…
Something as simple as giving her your shoulder to cry on is good enough. You can also get her a bottle of her favorite wine to allow her to unwind during dinner. Well, getting a woman tipsy can always make her get horny and want to have sex. After dinner, you can either give her a back or feet massage. When she is physically and mentally relaxed, you can start touching her. This will show her that you are a considerate lover who is more concerned about including her in sex, rather than using her to get …show more content…
The inner and outer lips of the vagina will then swell. Later on the vaginal walls and lips which have those little glands called vulvovaginal will start to secrete liquid to allow for penetration.
Female arousal normally takes more time than male arousal, therefore foreplay is very crucial. Her brain needs to feel sexy in order for her body to feel sexy. Keep things slow and steady to allow for more non-sexual touching, kissing and fondling to enable her to become more fully aroused.
Go and kiss all over her body. Kissing and stroking two places at one time make for a lot of wonderful stimulation. When touching her, do not forget that a woman has a lot of erogenous zones all over her body that crave for attention too. Feel free to rub, kiss and even nibble on those neglected sexually sensitive areas which can be found on her cheeks, ears, back of her neck, the inside of her elbows and knees and buttocks. Remember to take your time and read her body language. There are certain areas which can be more sensitive or responsive to stimulation for her and you should spend more time and effort on them.
(3) Give her manual and oral stimulation before