Why People Need To Lie

When you experience that sick and sinking feeling that your spouse-whether husband or wife-is not telling you everything,you know you need to act.What you don't need are more twisted scenarios of what may or may not be going on.All human beings have the capacity to imagine and when it comes to extramarital affairs,the painful emotions have more than enough power to drive our imagination in the darkest,sickest directions possible.Even the most uncreative among us can generally imagine vivid details of exactly what their cheating spouse may be up to.If you're going through these feelings and fantasies,it's time to put an end to this stage of the process right now.

Here is what you need to begin look for-immediately:

Information You Can't Verify-When a person begins to lie there is one way to catch them in the act: ask for proof.If you believe a story you are being told is not consistent with reality,then the person telling the story needs to present you with clear evidence that they are being truthful.This means, if they claim they were talking to someone on their cell phone that is related to their