It was back on August 24, 1995 at 9; 07 am when I brought into this world by Maria White-Dumas and Stanley. Their first born child then a minute later my twin popped out. Since that day I have been here in Atlanta, GA where I reside at 1978 Phillips Drive. There on my parents have made two additions to our family; my 15 year old brother Jahmal and my 12 year old brother Chris. I can honestly say my family is the greatest thing in the world. My mom is a Purchasing Agent for United Distributors, and my dad is an ISS teacher at King Middle School and South Atlanta High School’s Head Baseball and Softball coach. And with a family of all boys and crazy different personalities I have much respect for my parents for continuing to love us and put up with us. Then you have to move on……
It only takes a glimpse of time to take someones life and turn it upside down. October 31, 2013 was the day that Jen Elgersma’s life was struck by tragedy. Elgersma dropped her three year old daughter Autumn off to daycare like a normal day, little did Elgersma know that was the last time Autumn would ever go to daycare. May 27, 1943 was that day for Louie Zamperini. Zamperini and his crew were cooperating in a search and rescue mission over the Pacific when their plane suddenly lost power and lurched into the sea. Sometimes in tragedy we find our life’s purpose, and we are able to find redemption through brokenness.…
October second I awoke like any other day to get ready for school. Reaching for my phone to quite my alarm clock I was bombarded with endless text messages. As my eyes wandered over the words “I’m so sorry for your lose” my heart jumped out of my chest. My mind raced trying to figure out what had happened. As I ran to find my mother down stairs, her faced buried in her hands I knew my life was about to take a big turn.…
The majority of the people in the world don’t intentionally put themselves in dangerous situations, yet tragedies occur every day. Each year a motorcycle hill climbing competition is held in New Plymouth, Idaho called the Big Nasty Hill Climb. On September 19, 2009 my sister’s best friend Lacy Fine set out for a day of fun with her cousin Brittani and her cousin’s boyfriend Carlos to watch the hyped up event. She’s never been the most cautious person because her attention span is that of someone with ADHD or a stereotypical airhead. I say this with love in my heart, because she was literally a part of my family and would never purposefully hurt someone. I can assume from knowing Lacy better than almost anyone that on that Friday she was animatedly singing loudly to the radio or retelling a funny story with voices as usual. Her focus wasn’t on the task at hand of driving and she missed a stop sign coming down a hill and crashed into another truck. None of the passengers were wearing a seatbelt. The man in the truck was uninjured and Lacy was life-flighted with severe injuries, but both of her passengers were killed instantly. The two of them had just had a baby, which added to the unbearable amount of grief that Lacy and the rest of the family faced.…
Work was slow. Thats what I remember the most. I was the first to arrive for my shift (as always) and we hand't received any calls. I tried to catch up on some reading of the national headlines. My job didn't allow for much free time, so when I had some, I took advantage. Days like this were few and far between. Being a firefighter has taught me to appreciate all the down time I received. Today I should have been home decorating a nursery with my wife, but the night before I received a phone call asking if I could work overtime today. We have a little boy on the way, and were in need of all the extra overtime hours I can accumulate. Men started arriving for the new shift soon after. The ones who had been asleep at the station packed up and went home to enjoy a day off. By seven that morning I had a hand in preparing breakfast for the boys and had set down to eat with some of the people I loved the most. I sat at that table with twenty men who had proved time and time again that they would go through anything to have my back. These men were so very…
I still proudly wear my “R.I.P” shirt in honor of my lost school mates. I still tell anyone who will listen to me their story when I am asked about my shirt. I also remember all the drunken driving awareness events I attended. I remember as if it were yesterday the drunk driving rally’s I attended at the corner of Masonic and Gratiot near where my school mates “murder occurred” and the fundraiser at the Texas Roadhouse my father and I waited in line for over 2 hours to participate in. Painfully I remember the funeral of Devon and talking to my sister’s close friend who had dated Devon for several years. I remember the candlelight ceremony I attended on the Lake Shore High School athletic field to give support to the victim’s families and honor the victims. However, these events don’t take away the empty feeling I have in my heart at the senseless loss of my school mates and the anger I feel towards drunk drivers. As I write this essay now, my eyes are…
This was a very interesting article and gave me some goose bumps. I feel for the death of all victims and their families. I learned from this article to always focus on what’s going on around me at all times.…
Three year old, Nathalyz Riveras, is a severely disabled girl who was born blind and diagnosed with down syndrome. Living in a home with two unmarried parents, Carmen Ramirez (mother) and Carlos Riveras (father), and four other siblings between the ages of 3-9, one being her twin, sounds like an ordinary family trying to live a “normal family” life; not in this case. Recently, news about Nathalyz Riveras was pronounced dead of starvation weighing about 11lbs at Einstein Medical Center. The Medical Examiner stated that she could have been dead hours before she was taken to Einstein. The sad reality is, Nathalyz lived in an unsanitary row house out in West Oak Lane with her family. At the time of Nathalyz death, neither parent was home. Later that night, Mr. Riveras discovered that Nathalyz was not breathing and immediately called Ms. Ramirez instead of calling 911. Ms. Ramirez came home from her boyfriend’s house and wrapped her daughter in a blanket that was not clean and brought her to the hospital. In this case, it becomes a social matter because a child died in a home where both parents were not home and questions about how this situation occurred is on the rise in order for action to take place.…
It was July 24, 2011, the day I had been patiently awaiting for over a year. This was the day that my husband was coming home from deployment in Bahrain, Middle East. This time, not only was he coming home to me, he was also coming home to meet his four day old daughter. Emotions were high that day.…
Driving through a snow storm on a cold October night, my mother held in her arms a child she expected to see a week later. In the blink of an eye, sixteen years of my life passed by.…
Usually by the time I get home from work and picking up the kids, it is late and I do not feel like taking the time to actually cook a meal. One evening we got home earlier than we usually do so I decided to fix dinner, sit down and actually eat as a family. I can remember myself standing in front of the stove thinking of the frustrating long day of work I had, getting aggravated because the kids were running around the house. The kids were playing and being loud which is what a 4 year old boy and 4 year old girl would do. Then it suddenly becomes quiet and Patrick comes to me and says “Mommy, you know what?” I say with an annoyed tone of voice “What Patrick?” He says “your superman.” I picked him up and gave him a big hug. In that moment I realized that out of all that has happened to me in my life, I am truly grateful that I have my children and that I am actually a better person because God brought them into my life.…
Last summer, on the last day of June, was a day that I will never forget. It was around three in the afternoon and I was very hungry. My parents don’t buy junk food, so I usually ask to walk to the nearby store to get some for myself. This time my dad said no! And he explained that we were eating dinner in an hour or so and that he didn’t want to take a chance of me not eating at dinner. As a twelve year old “adult” that I thought I was, I disobeyed my dad and went to the store by myself.…
I was at my house, it was six a.m. Sat. May 17, 2014, I was 15 and five months. This day is very important to me because it was a day I will never forget. I remember waking up to the voice of my mom saying “Sabina wake up it’s time for you to start getting ready you don’t wanna be late to your church.” So that’s when I got up right then and said to myself “Oh yeah it’s today, the day I have always been waiting for.” So as I get up I walk out of my house go two houses down my street so that one of my brothers older sisters can do my hair. Getting ready and all took three hrs after she got done with my hair I went back home to change into my big dress that I was gonna be wearing all day that day.…
I am walking around the garden observing the children whilst they are playing. Suddenly, child A falls off the activity centre and lands on her bottom. I walk over to her and ask her “are you ok?” She looks at me with tears in her eyes and nods. I bend down to her and ask her “are you sure?” She looks at me and shakes her head. I then take her hand, help her up, and lead her over to the teacher. I explain to the teacher “child A fell off the activity centre and landed on her bottom. I asked child A if she was ok and she shook her head.” The teacher then said to child A “are you hurt?” Child A looked at the teacher and nodded. The teacher then asked me “can you take her to the office please to see the first aider?” I answered “ok.” I looked at child A and said “come on, it’s ok.” I took child A to the office and the first aider, and told the first aider “child A fell off the activity centre and landed on her bottom.” The first aider handed me an accident form to fill out whilst she looked at child A.…
Tragic events always come to us by surprise. Tragedy is something no one wants to encounter, yet we all do at one point in our lives. Some experience this in much more diverse ways than others. The young woman sitting in front of the café faced unspeakable horror by being sexually abused by a family member between the ages of eight and twelve. The other woman sits on the curbstone with her canine companion in sadness. Her sorrow comes from two appalling events in which both of her best friends committed suicide within a four-month span. These sickening tragedies will always be with them, but it is how they pick up the pieces of their shattered lives and move forward that will help them to define their future.…