On the other hand, a decision may affect people around us. Once we are married and have kids, our decision will affect not only ourselves but also our family. For example, if you have to choose a job to look for, we like to choose a job which can help us look after family. Thus we don’t want to choose a job which is 20km far from home and requires work a long day. In this circumstance, you want to get opinions from your family members living with you.
To sum up, we shouldn’t always be arbitrary when making any decision. Especially for big decisions, we can’t just listen to your hearts. We should seek points of view from experienced people, or people older than us. Whenever we come to a life