Perception of Self and Others

How do I see myself? I am skilled at making other people happy and doing whatever I can do to make people around me happy. I am skilled at listening to people and their problems and also I am skilled at making new friends. I have the ability to make people around me feel comfortable and friendly and I also have the ability to make people laugh. I have the ability to resolve arguments easily. I know things about others that make them happy. I am competent at doing things that make people feel friendly around me. I am also competent at stopping fights and making people to stop hating each other. One part of my personality is that I never fight with others. I always swallow my anger whenever I am angry at someone instead of releasing my anger.

How do others see me? Other people believe that I am skilled at resolving issues. They feel friendly around me. Other people believe I have the ability to make anyone my friend. Other people believe I know things about their feelings and I can always make them feel happy and comfortable when they are around me. Other people believe that I am competent at stopping fights and making people to stop hating each other. One part of my personality is that other people believe that I am a super cool person and they always know that I will not get angry or fight with them no matter what happens.

From both the lists it is clear that how I see myself and how others see me are two very similar lists. To conclude, it is clear that I am good at making friends and at resolving issues that other people are facing either between themselves or with me. The only difference in the lists is that people thing I never get angry but in actual I do get angry but I never show my anger and always keep it inside me.

Who I am and how I know this? Well I am a genuinely nice person with whom everyone wants to hang out. I do not get angry at others and always try to make them smile. This trait has its advantages which are apparent but also has some