The birthmother and birthfather are often made to seem like bad people but sometimes they are giving their child up because they know they can’t look after them and want their child to …show more content…
A lot of infertile people adopt children so they can experience what it’s like to raise a child. Adopting a child has all the same responsibilities as the birthmother and birthfather of the child, the adoptive parents have to look after the child, emotionally, financially and physically. It is not easy being an adoptive parent, it requires parents to have patience, wisdom and think about their choices and words towards the child. The adoptive parents also have to build a relationship with the child that the birthmother and birthfather wouldn’t of had to do. The adoptive parents can help the child to peruse their dreams and talents. “Adopting one child won’t change the world, but for that child, the world will …show more content…
Having these opportunities should allow the child to be able to get over the loss of their birthmother and birthfather, but studies show that once the child goes to school they can have behavioural issues and can have learning disabilities. The child may be like this because they blame themselves for what happened or feel ashamed about being adopted. Another reason could be because of prenatal exposure to drugs or alcohol, abuse, neglect, lack of structure and consistency, and poor nutrition. This can all contribute to the child’s risk for ADHD, being antisocial, attachment disorders, developmental delay, and poor social skills. A lot of children get adopted from orphanage’s, around 40% of children from orphanage’s has been homeless before. Nearly 60% of the male’s in the orphanages have been convicted for a crime, and only 48% of the men are employed. About 500 million children from orphanage’s endure violence, and neglect each year. There are about 382,400 children and youth currently in foster care In the United States. About 104,200 are available for