Statement of the problem Many teenagers are getting pregnant and not able to keep their children. There are many reasons why teenagers decide to give up their child, they are in school, they don’t have the money or they can’t support the baby or themselves. Adoption is the answer for many of these teenagers. There are two kinds of adoptions open and closed. An open adoption is when the original parents are allowed to visit and communicate with their child. A closed adoption is where there is no contact allowed. Today open adoptions are seen to be more beneficial than closed adoptions. I’m adopted and I have an open adoption and I feel that it is very beneficial to me. In order to understand an open adoption …show more content…
“Starting in the early 1980’s, society’s view on adoption changed (motherhood)”. There would no longer be a need for secrecy, guilt, or shame for the child or the birth mother. Open adoptions allows the birth parents, adoptive parents and the child to have a relationship with each other. Adoption agencies help birth mothers create an adoption plan that includes their needs and desires and that of their child. Open adoption les the birth parents choose the adoptive family. There are various degrees of the “open” adoption process. For some it means that the birthparents and adoptive parents have some knowledge about each other. For others, the birthparents and adoptive parents form a relationship before the birth and are present at the birth of the child. The relationship that it formed between birthparents and adoptive parents is one of trust and respect. The American Association of Open Adoption Agencies lists in its statement of purpose that “Open adoption is the healthiest form of adoption, it is an adoption in which the birth family and the adopted child enjoy and ongoing, in person relationship” (openadotpion.org), this statement if a reflection of what the majority of open adoptions consist …show more content…
Whatever the fears or concerns that each have the majority feel that an open adoption was the most beneficial to them and the child. Long-term research has shown that “adoptive families generally report that they do not fear that birthparents will return to claim the child and that they child does not display confusion about who is the parent” because of the open relationship they have with the birthparents (openadoption). Birthparents know how the child is doing and can see the security that the adoptive parents provide. Besides knowing the medical history of the birthparents, open adoption allows the adoptive parents to have a better understanding of character traits and that the child may have. An example is when the child tilts their head to the right when is the same as when the birth mother speaks, there are many ways that a child may react that are connected to ways the birthparents would have reacted, it can only be explained when its in their