No one commits adultery without first being able to justify their behaviour to themselves. The problem with such justifications is they are falsehoods, a way of engaging in bad behaviour without having to think about the consequences of the adultery to self and others.
The adulterer lives in a mythical, storybook world. The realities of their actions are far different than the “reality” they create to justify the adultery.
Adultery Causes Emotional Pain:
When a spouse is cheated on there are feelings of betrayal, depression and anger. A spouse will feel second-rate and undesirable. He/she will question their worth and value as a husband or wife.
Spouses get over the betrayal of adultery but only after much suffering. Adultery hurts and can cause severe psychological damage. There is also a loss of trust and faith in the adulterer. So much so that it makes surviving adultery close to impossible.
Not only will your spouse be injured by the adultery but anyone close to you will be affected negatively. Children, family, and friends all those who care about you will suffer if you make the choice to engage in an adulterous relationship.
An adulterer may feel that the benefit of adultery to them is worth the suffering of others. That is wrong! Adultery hurts and it is never OK to hurt another person.
When a spouse is cheated on there are feelings of betrayal, depression and anger. A spouse will feel second-rate and undesirable. He/she will question their worth and value as a husband or wife.
Spouses get over the betrayal of adultery but only after much suffering. Adultery hurts and can cause severe psychological damage. There is also a loss of trust and faith in the adulterer. So much so that it makes surviving adultery close to impossible.
Not only will your spouse be injured by the adultery but anyone close to you will be affected negatively. Children, family, and friends all those who care about you will suffer if you make the