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In societies with reduced mobility, (predominantly non-western cultures) arranged marriages are common as love is expected to grow due to the fact that it is not seen as necessary for marriage. Arranged marriages seem to work well and make good sense as divorce rates are low and Epstein (2002) found that perhaps about half of them report that they have fallen in love with each other.…
I knew that arranged marriage was prevalent, but not to the extent that the article explains. A particular concept I found interesting was that unarranged marriages created through love, or “love match” have their own name and unique distinction; a very good friend of mine was born in India and frequently expresses the pride he has from his parents being married by love and not by arrangement. This article encouraged me to open my mind and realize how different cultures can be. For example, instead of just expecting food, dress, and language to vary as culture varies, it is important to remind myself that everyday components of the Western culture I know can be very different elsewhere—and that the differences are…
In many parts of the world, there are different cultures that portray marriage quite differently, especially in India, Pakistan, and Afghanistan. To have an arranged marriage at a young age is considered the “norm” for many cultures since there is very little freedom for women to choose who they want to wed. In A Thousand Splendid Suns, Mariam is definitely hesitant about marrying Rasheed – shaking as she even struggles to say “yes” to Mullah when he asks her if she agrees to take Rasheed as her lawfully wedded husband. As she is rushed into an arranged marriage by her father, Mariam is unaware of what may come in the future. She signs her name on the contract under enormous pressure.…
Every country and every religion have their own traditions. It is what makes their culture different from each other. The American and Indian cultures have a vast differentiation between them. While the culture of America is a mixture of different cultures, the Indian culture is unique and has its own values. Even though dating and marriage have the same meaning to him and her in every culture, the meaning of their relationships and wedding celebrations to him and her are different.…
It is natural for everyone to need or have or want a companion to shares their lives with. It is thought normal of young adults to want a spouse and a family of their own. In relationships it is that passion “falling in love” is the dominant aspect of young adults (Berger, 2010, p.412) Intimacy is when two people know each other well enough to share secrets, as well as engage in sexual activity. Commitment is more time consuming and requires work, dedication, shares possessions, in some cases child-rearing responsibilities, and the capacity to forgive. In some international familes arranged marriages commitment is first before intimacy and passion. Domestic violence sometimes occurs but male figures of the bride usually oversees common ground is the husband is too demanding. Arranged marriages hardly ever do divorce, there’s tremendous effort in keeping the family together as well as social and family support is offered.…
The deliberation of the word marriage is connected to thoughts, feelings, emotions either its love marriage, arranged marriage or forced marriage. Antecedently, discussing the concept of forced marriage and arranged marriage, I would like to bring thoughts of the reader toward two stories related to forced and arranged marriage. Begin with a story of a poor family with only the father somehow making some earning and have two daughters that he wanted to get married as soon as possible because they were getting older. As we can assume after a certain age, usually it gets harder for the girls to get married. So whoever was telling the father or the mother that we have seen this Rishta (marriage) for a daughter? The people are exquisite, and your…
We had it planned; college, careers, lifestyles, and yes, love. Love, the one dream we did not share. I remember the conversation as we strolled along our normal path. I detailed my plans for my future love. My “knight in shining armor” story and explained how he would arrive, and we would have a magical connection. He would love me completely and together we would ride off into the…
Why would anyone want to be in an arranged marriage? Sometimes people like to be in arranged marriages because they don’t want the freedom of picking their partner and believe it’s their destiny and some people want to meet their intimate partner on their own. While the author does show a distressing tone, it reveals the author’s attitude through the story of Farima and the customs of marriage and divorce.…
After reading the article Arranging a Marriage in India my first thoughts were why would any man or woman want to marry someone they are unfamiliar with, no nothing about them. I had the same mind as Serena Nanda who is the woman who got to experience it all while her trip to India. Of course my opinions had changed after reading the article, although I never had a problem with arranged marriages because I had been aware that some cultures do that as a lifestyle, but the idea of it kind of sounding like the parents are selling the daughter. As Serena mentions that how in the U.S we find the one we love and then marry after a few years of dating if it’s the right one of course, but now divorce rate is very high and it’s usually because it’s cheating or you just get tired of being with the same person. But how a women in India see it, they marry the guy that the parents have arranged them with and they seem to have a very flow and happy marriage, but how can that be? Is what I ask myself? They are people who have never talked or seen before yet they enjoy each other, although I like the idea on how when they marry they get to know each other and they aren’t tired of each other because it’s just the beginning of their marriage, it’s kind of like dating in U.S only they’re married. They interview with Sita, Sita mentions on how her parents have experience and they know what’s best for her when picking the right guy for her to get married with. While they are picking boys for her Sita doesn’t experience dating her parents do all the work for and all she does is goes to school and enjoys her youth she has more time to spend on her life instead of worrying about the man she might marry or boys. Sita’s reasoning was very understandable and I feel like I connect to that idea and that maybe it wouldn’t be a bad idea to have an arranged marriage, but I know that it really isn’t for me. Education in man is very important when the parents of a soon to be bride is looking…
One reason I agree is that the younger generation these days are changing how a traditional arranged marriage should be done, and are instead turning to the web for dating sites, and marriage web sites for a partner in a relationship. These web sites offer vary little information about the potential person and are not very accurate also. The author says “Now these young Indians and Pakistanis are pushing the cultural boundaries created by their parents and grandparents one step further: they are reshaping the tradition of arranged marriages” (155). People these days are not looking for the lust or love, but rather have someone that’s compatible with their lifestyle “It’s not based on love” (156).…
Polygamy is the practice of having more than two people in a relationship or in marriage. Polygamy has been practiced for many centuries and has been practiced by many different individuals and cultures all around the world. Polygamy was accepted by different societies and as time passed by it was accepted in many countries around the world. Polygamy has been a controversial issue in America and has affected our society for over a thousand years. I am against polygamy because it is capable of destroying the importance of marriage and the intimacy between husband and wife. Not only does it affect marriage but it also affects the values of society.…
The balanced score card is a management system that is designed to change a businesses mission, vision and whole strategy in order to complete the goals and ideas of the business successfully. Accountability and Communication are the main components of the score card approach. The management team needs to be able to create goals that each employee responsible for a section are able to achieve and understand the given task completely. The higher management should have the completed management plan ready to show the mission, vision, and strategy that the health care business is trying to achieve. Gathered information, and staffing needs will be able to intermingle with the (PPACA) Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act. The score card ideas…
The traditional Jaguar Land Rover customer values luxury brand and exemplery customer service. Luxury saloons and sports cars also appealed to them.…
Arranged marriages are often discussed a lot. Some people are against it, and others think it’s the best way to have a marriage. In Islam, it’s common to be born in to an arranged marriage, already when you’re born, your parents had found a partner for you. In some arranged marriages, the bride doesn’t have the rights to refuse the marriage. She has to accept the man, her parents choose for her. In many families, arranged marriages are tradition, and therefore it would be disrespectful to refuse the marriage.…
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