Out of the three parenting approach mention in chapter 9 I prefer The Authoritative Approach. This approach takes into consideration the needs of the child along with providing limits and control as needed. Although, I prefer this approach with my children I was raised using the Authoritarian approach. The way I was raised affects me know because I sometime convert to the way I was raise. For example I get to the point where I expect my children to do as I say or I become every strict without any balance. This causes a lot of miss understanding because my children start to feel like they cannot talk…
There are four main parenting styles, permissive, Authoritarian, Authoritative and Uninvolved parenting. Permissive parenting is very relaxed, there believe is children are capable of making their decision on their own with some parenting advice. Authoritarian parents have high expectations for their children their also very strict they like their kids to follow completely. Authoritative parents are strict, and very loving. Authoritative parents involve a delicate balance of expectations and demands in a fair and responsive environment. They are open minded about rules and issues, they will listen and consider the child’s opinion and viewpoints. Uninvolved parents neglect their children. Their children are emotionally distance…
There are three different types of parenting, and they are authoritarian style parent, the permissive style parent, and the democratic style parent. The parenting style I think is better is the democratic style of parenting, because it involves the opinions of all the family, so no family members opinion is not unnoticed and the parent makes the last decision, after everyone has made their opinion.…
There are three different types of parenting styles used by families, authoritarian, permissive and democratic. Authoritarian style is when the parents present themselves as absolute authority in all matters. Children do not argue with their parent’s decisions and they are taught respect for authority to instill strong moral character in them. The children aren’t allowed to speak their own opinion. Permissive Style is when parents let their children do things on their own and make their own choices. For example, when it comes to the child’s bedtime, homework, TV schedule and what they eat, etc. Last parenting style is democratic. This style is when parents use a both styles. Both parents and children are able to voice their needs and opinions. When the family makes decisions, it usually is up to the entire family, the parents have the final decision. This is an open-communication style. I feel that the democratic style is better than the other two parenting styles because it has a mix of both styles in it, there should be a fair amount of discipline and freedom.…
1. What are the different parenting styles used by families? Which do you think is better? Why? The first type of parenting styles is the authoritarian style where the parents have all authority and say so in every matter. The second type is the permissive style where the parents are extremely passive and give the children a lot of power. The third is the democratic style of parenting where the parent considers the thoughts and feelings of the children but ultimately they make the decision. The democratic style is my personal favorite because it makes they child feel like their opinion matters but does not give them the power to run all over their parent.…
Sociologist Jeanne Ballantine describes authoritative parenting as “demanding and responsive, controlling but not restrictive” like authoritarian practices. (Ballantine) This parenting style makes compromises between parent and child. (King) There is still a sense of control, but the relationship between parent and child are more understanding and are able to talk things through when there is a dilemma using warmth and nurture. (King, 288) Ballantine and The Science of Psychology textbook describe children that have been raised under authoritative parents have “higher levels of competence, social development, self-perception, and mental health than those raised in authoritarian, permissive, or neglectful homes.” (King,…
The first parenting style is authoritative which also tends to be the most successful type of parenting. Authoritative is when a parent is not being sheltering of a child but making sure the child has an understanding of the rules and regulations the parent has set in place but they explain the reasoning behind the decisions they make. Many of these children grow up to be very respectful of the needs of others. The children of an authoritative parent may also have a much higher self-esteem and are popular amongst their peers. An example can be setting a curfew and making sure the child is in the house by that…
The first, authoritative, is the most successful and includes high involvement, acceptance and adaptive control techniques. The second is authoritarian with low acceptance, involvement, and high coercive control. Third, the permissive, allows children too much freedom with choices and ultimately ends with bad behavior. Fourth and last is uninvolved which works exactly as it sounds the parents are uninvolved…
Authoritative parenting, also called 'assertive democratic'[15] or 'balanced' parenting,[16] is characterized by a child-centered approach that holds high expectations of maturity. Authoritative parents can understand how their children are feeling and teach them how to regulate feelings. They often help their children to find appropriate outlets to solve problems. Authoritative parents encourage children to be independent but still place controls and limits on their actions.[1] Extensive verbal give-and-take is not refused, and parents try to be warm and nurturant toward the child.[1]Authoritative parents are not usually as controlling as authoritarian parents, allowing the child to explore more freely, thus having them make their own decisions based upon their own reasoning. Often, authoritative parents produce children who are more independent and self-reliant.[17] An authoritative parenting style mainly results when there is high parental responsiveness and high parental demands.[18]…
The authoritative parent has clear and realistic rules and expectations, a set routine, and consequences when children break the rules. The most important factor of this parenting style is the emphasis on a clear line of communication. Like authoritarian parents, they have high expectations for their children, but unlike that style, they have a high level of responsiveness to their child as…
The authoritative parenting style is about setting limits, reasoning with kids, and being responsive to their emotional needs. This style is common in middle class parenting throughout the world, and it’s connected with the most successful child outcomes. While authoritative parents are very sincere, nurturing, and open towards their children, they also expect high levels of independence and maturity. Rather than running to their child’s assistance every time they are in need of something, authoritative parenting suggests letting the child work out their problems on their own. Children raised by authoritative parents are more likely to become independent, self-confident, socially accepted, educationally successful, and obedient. Teens are less…
In conclusion, authoritative parenting style is most strongly associated with improvement in children’s intelligence. This was evident in the statistical and theoretical evidence which showed that children who has authoritative parents and went through authoritative parenting has a more positive attitude and outlook, and they also…
The 4th Amendment to the United States Constitution grants the right of privacy to all people in the country. The use of spyware on children and teens is blant attack on that amendment. Consequently, it has been a real controversial topic between parents and their kids ever since it was invented and used in the 1900’s. There have been many arguments and reasons that have been said for and against it. I for one am against its use. Among those who are for the use of spyware is an author named Harlan Coben, the author of The Undercover Parent. Throughout the article, he argues reasons that support his side. However, Coben’s arguments about the use of spyware because spyware restricts freedom, it’s an invasion of privacy and it doesn’t let children…
Everyone is raised differently. Many children are shown warmth and love while others are not. Parenting styles definitely affect a child’s mental and physical development (Huffman, 2012, p. 349). In my experience, my parents used a type of parenting style know as authoritative, and I developed into an independent and strong willed woman (Huffman, 2012, p. 349).…
I agree with Coben about having parents spying on their teens’ because we as teens’ don't quite know about the dangerous in the internet. Parents just want their teens to be at any risk because in the article from “ Undercover Parent” says that meeting someone you don’t know or going into unknown websites can harm you because you can't be sure to trust it. Another reason for example, when it almost happened to me, I was almost in danger of certain things that could have happened to me for that reason is why my parents have all of my electronics on supervision. However, at the same time I disagree there are two reasons why I disagree. First ,we as teenagers that…