Every teenager thinks that they have it the worst. That they've been through and seen everything. The truth is they haven't and they will only realize that when they become an adult. I recently read a speech given by a man named Shane Koyczan. He titled it "To This Day".…
1. What would you do if you discovered your teenager was using drugs or alcohol?…
In my own opinion, those teens who the world calls our “Young adults” is crap. Why would they be young adults and yet have nothing they can do except make mistakes like everyone does in their teen years. What is the point of telling a group of young people that they are the future, then be mad at them when they make mistakes?…
Normal teenagers play sports, listen to pop music, are extroverted, have average grade, and are physically fit. But not all of the “Normal things” are as harmless. The public view (internet) said normal teenagers don’t have mental health problems, their issues are just “being a teenager.” They should think their parents are terrible, thus clouding the teens judgment when actual abuse occurs. By telling teenagers their issues are “not normal”, teenagers are being pressured to hide problems.…
This is a very dangerous mindset that adults are constantly participating in, due to the fact that it discourages teenagers from expressing, or even having their opinion when they’re adults. Moreover, it could encourage them to treat future teenagers with the same amount of disrespect when they’re older, which is deconstructive to both sides. Not only do teenagers deal with a repeatedly flippant attitude from adults, they have to endure the doubt that these stereotypes have instilled in…
The transition from adulthood to childhood is certainly not a simple adjustment. Coming of age presents many challenging decisions, overwhelming pressures, and emotions that can be very difficult for adolescents to overcome. In the excerpts that we studied, The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini and Escape to Afghanistan by Farah Ahmedi, the stories of two young people are told, revealing their struggles with coming of age and their personal life battles. The Kite Runner tells the story of the character Amir who is a boy trying to deal with his own internal conflicts involving the relationship with his father, Baba, and friend Hassan; which also happens to be his servant. In Escape to Afghanistan, the character Ahmedi is a girl telling the hardships…
Teenagers, though they have almost crossed the threshold into adulthood, are still immature and irresponsible. Ergo, they need to be treated accordingly. In 2002, forty-one percent of…
First of all, the primary source uses many words to describe adults’ actions to indicate the oppression teenagers suffered right now. Evidence like “clean up your looks,” “watch all the things you do,” “got methods of keeping you clean” and “rip up your heads” clearly show what kind of oppression teenagers have and what they need to resist. Adults are trying to make teenagers fit the “good standards” created by them. Good teenagers should be innocent, be obedient, study hard and so on. What’s more, adults are ready to find out teenagers’ mistakes at any time so that they could guide teenagers to what they thought is the correct way. They also want to make teenagers believe that the adults’ words are all right. Teenagers who live in such environment…
society today. All this talk about being in or out made me think of the social changes…
According to the Resource Center for Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention, most teens don't use drugs but think most other teens do. Most teens aren't sexually active but believe most of their peers are. Most teens who are sexually active practice safe sex but think most of their peers don't. The same is true of smoking, drinking and other social issues, according to a Wahoo Public Schools (Nebraska) 2012 newsletter article. Because so many teens have an inaccurate idea of what the social norms in their peer group actually are, they can be sometimes be tempted to make bad decisions under the false impression that they are just going along with the…
“Why are you doing this to us? This isn’t fair! Teenagers aren’t the only people…
Every child has to come to the realization at one time or another that they cannot be a kid forever. They must at some point ‘grow up’ and learn that they will soon have to rely on themselves instead of having their parents continually help them. I guess I learned that the first time I started babysitting a girl who at the time was about seven years old.…
Coming of age is a child’s transformation into adulthood and maturity. Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years; we grow old by deserting our youthful years and starting a new as an adult. With coming of age comes responsibilities and the answers to the questions that we have held on to for years. Interestingly enough, the time that this process takes however, is based on a child’s life situations and personality. Curiosity, losses, events and people influencing them in their young life are some examples of traits that determine the time it takes for this process to occur. The separation of parents also, is a huge contributing factor to the coming of age process. In the novel Bless Me Ultima by Rudolfo Anaya, the movie Stand By Me , directed by Rob Reiner, and the short story Reunion by John Cheever, coming of age is forced upon the young protagonists because of the separation of their parents and the influences that they have had on them.…
So I got pregnant at the end of my sophomore year. In fact, I got pregnant two weeks after I lost my virginity. How lucky was I, huh? From the beginning I lost most of my friends. I was called many names, slut, hoe, stupid, and irresponsible. And of course I had to walk around with a baby bump for nine months! From time to time people ask me how I dealt with it. My answer is proving them wrong. Today’s society seems to think that you just threw your life away.…
It has become a habit in recent years for people to assume that someone else is in the wrong, “Just because you are right, doesn't mean, I am wrong. You just haven’t seen life from my side” (Anonymous). Everyone leads different lives that someone else will never know the struggle they have endured. Most people think of teenagers as liars, stealers, or a hoodlum. Most of these thoughts and ideas about us teenagers are completely false, but we still have to shoulder the burden of these words.…