Bend It Into Your Pillow Analysis

We all have people in our worlds that have done us wrong, or has angered or hurt us. Whether the know it or not.
It’s so easy to point a finger. It’s easy to put the blame on someone and make yourself believe that you are who you are because of the hurt this person has caused.
The fact of the matter is that now, putting a blame on someone results in living in the past. Holding anger and resentment towards and individual blocks us from learning how to be free.
Most people do not know the affects of their actions, never fully looking into the deepness of their actions.
We search high and dry trying to seek answers and redemption for why we feel like this. We search for answers as to why they hurt us, we try to find out the true solution for why
But with that being said, a lot of things get easier with practice and determination. To experience our full self worth we first must forgive those who has hurt us.
Write it down. Write them a letter. Call them. Scream it into your pillow. Whatever your method may be, please, drop the why’s and all of the questions and instead thank them for the time and lesson they provided you with, wish them the best with their journey and continue on with yours.
Forgiveness doesn’t result in having to be friends again, it doesn’t mean you and your significant other need to get back together. It means you finally put your hurt and endless thoughts to rest. The state of numbness and pain you’ve been experiencing for days, months, or years is finally being put at ease.
And you know damn well you aren’t perfect too. For the people you’ve done harm upon, you tell them. Tell them you’re sorry. Find the method that works best for you and tell them. Mean what you say. Express the true feelings you contain, be true to yourself. There is no time limit for apologizing. People’s pain can last a lifetime, so now it is time to own our wrong doings and very gently untangle the issues of the