the best of her ability at school. What motivated her to learn English was the challenge and…
The sisters are close, in spite of living on opposite coasts. “She’ll call me up and say, ‘ Okay future me, what do I do about this,” Pla laughs. They share not only the close bond that sisterhood brings, but also the special bond of both raising boys on the autism spectrum.…
Interpersonal relationship and nonrealistic conflict such as Fredrik and Michael’s case, can always be collaborated by equity rule as either of them will gain a greater share if they put in more effort and time than their partner. In conclusion, there are a variety of ways to resolve conflicts. However, since perceptions vary among people, the way they perceive emotions may then determine interdependencies of the conflict as emotions unfold meanings and messages.…
Growing up I know I have had my fair share of arguments with my brothers, whether it be about who gets to watch their show or who gets to be player 1, regardless of the situation I knew that we would grow out of our rivalries and mature. Similarly in both books they were able to get pass their rivalries and find peace in the end although it took some time. Then in both books we see siblings feuding with each other, what they’re arguing over may be different, but with each new argument that arises we see each sibling crawling for the edge over the other. Although the context is different in each piece of literature we can see that the sibling’s argument is sparked by a parent’s preference for one child over the other and the actual reason for their disagreement is miniscule in actual meaning.…
Overcoming adversity and obstacles isn’t something easy a person can do it because you have to be able to know that you got this and that you are strong without giving up. These two athletes had hit a point in their lives that they thought they will never succeed, Aimee and Bethany have some similarities and differences from one another. One thing that they most are unlike is never giving up even though they tried a couple of times. Both Aimee and Bethany had their limbs removed and they are different because they had different ways of facing their obstacles. Aimee Mullins and Bethany Hamilton both had their limbs removed and they couldn’t do what they loved to do. The best part about Bethany and Aimee was that they learn to accepted it and…
Stacy’s perspective of his friendships with T.J. and Jeremy affects the decisions he makes in Chapter Seven. Stacy lets T.J. gets away with so much because Stacy believes that it is his duty to be nice to T.J. because he is T.J.’s friend. I believe that Stacy thinks that T.J. is a good kid and friend deep down. T.J. tries to cheat on Mrs. Logan’s test with cards but slips them to Stay when he sees Mrs. Logan coming toward him. Stacy does not see his mom when he takes the cheat cards.…
In the Academy Award winning film, Ordinary People, the Jarrett family is a dysfunctional family in which no one openly talks or expresses their feelings. The movie is all about the Jarrett family dealing with Conrad Jarrett, the son of Beth and Calvin, who tried to kill himself because his brother died. Beth Jarrett only wants one thing; she wants her family to be “normal” again. Throughout the movie there is a lot of conflict with all three characters. Since no one in the Jarrett family knows how to deal with conflict, there is a lot of acts of “silence” or “violence” when conflict came around. There are many conflict management strategies that can help the Jarretts, including, creating safety, CRIB, contrasting, and more. Conrad, Beth, and…
I was hoping I could get a better understanding of why they were happening and what I could do to reduce the number of fights or even stop them happening entirely. Instead, I learned something a lot more disheartening. My dad told me about his relationship with his brother. The one he doesn't talk to. He talked about how his brother was a troublemaker, just like my brother.…
I wish I was the bigger and mature sibling years ago. After reading this chapter of the book, I have been letting the other person win by admitting that I am wrong. It has made things much easier and taught me that it is more important to admit that you are wrong than try to prove how it makes you right. A specific situation that I can use this in is with my freshmen. Freshmen love to argue and try to prove that I am wrong.…
Conflicts make the world go around, but when is conflict reaching the point where family relationships are affected? In Shakespeare’s The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, both the Montague and Capulet families experience conflicts that in return, leave long lasting effects on their families. While many people may argue that the feuding between the families in the play cannot be used as a relative argument, Shakespeare uses this to prove that conflicts often do not need to be taken to extremes. When conflicts are taken to these extremes, family relationships are often times injured in the process of resolving the issue. Not only does this appear many places in the past, the same problem of conflicts reaching extremes still happens, and happens quite often, in the modern world. In many cases, parents and children have different views on these conflicts, which causes their…
Through this story I think I most relate to Lucas because I am not the one to trick my sibling. My sibling is the one that acts most like Amy, always trying to trick me. “Amy? You’re just kidding aren’t you? That was pretty good. You know if you weren’t so funny-looking you could probably become an actress.” Pg.7. This is what I would probably end up saying in this circumstance, try to be funny but keep it on edge and be a little bit hard-nosed about it. I am more of a gullible type of person so this book relates to me a lot because Lucas in the story actually believed that his sister was under attack. “Amy? Amy, come on. Quit it.” Pg.7. This quote is when I would usually get a little fearful or nervous that it could be happening. I would…
It is inevitable for one to avoid conflicts when it affects them personally. It is ordinary for one to conform to betrayal, deceit, false accusations and many other various ways in an attempt to fulfil their desires and objectivity. Although people may engage in conflict for personal reasons, some do not engage in conflict deliberately but were instead drawn in because of the conflict occurring between others. With this, people who are trapped in the middle must force themselves to take a side or form a judgement in order to benefit themselves or the people around them and hence engaging in conflict for their personal reasons.…
In season 1, Lucas Scott is a teenager, a new high school student, brought up by his single mother, Karen, and his uncle Keith. His biological father, Dan Scott, rejects his existence and cares more about his step-brother, Nathan. Lucas feels invisible and unwanted, but his uncle Keith, even though isn’t his biological father, serves as the father figure, taking care of Lucas and encouraging him to face his fears. When Lucas is ridiculed by others, especially Nathan, he becomes frustrated and upset, but his Uncle Keith provides him courage, encouraging him to try out for the basketball team, protecting him when he’s threatened, and forgiving him after getting into a drunk-driving accident together. In season 7, we see family differently, with…
Conflict is an inevitable part of life. It can arise from a failure to achieve a motive or when facing an unfamiliar environment. Conflict is an opportunity to improve. Different individuals will learn to cope with conflict differently; it may seem natural for some to avoid or stand by conflict and let it tear relationships apart, but there are common mechanisms which people can adopt to resolve their problems. Finding similarities and ignoring the differences is one way of coping with unlike individuals, but the fundamental approach to resolving conflict is to accept. The acceptance of individual and cultural differences gives us insight and understanding of the basis of conflict, which also allows for reassessment of moral values. This is how unity can be achieved in the most difficult of all circumstances.…
In a conflict, each person will have their own view of the situation at hand and react differently. As the old saying says, there are two sides to every story. For example, let’s say you have a couple that gets into an argument or should I say, a conflict, about their child spilling juice on the living room carpet. The mother may view it as being a simple mistake and can easily be cleaned, whereas the father may make a big deal out of it. Obviously, both perspectives are different based on their reactions.…