Lazarus’s transactional model of stress and coping was created to evaluate the process of how people coped with stressful events. It takes into account firstly the persons appraisal of the stressor, and secondly the social and cultural resources available at their disposal (Lazarus & Cohen, 1977). This is how someone judges the importance of the event and then consequently, how they deal with it.…
2. Identify the types and range of coping mechanisms used by people when confronting stressful life events…
Daniel Gilbert’s article “Immune to Reality” reveals how humans tend to make up excuses for their behavior in defence to the psychological immune system. Gilbert looks at the mechanisms we use to fend off unhappiness and spells out the details of what he calls the psychological immune system. Like the physical immune system defends us from illness, the psychological immune system defends us from unhappiness. Gilbert says, "Ignorance of our psychological immune system causes us to predict incorrectly the circumstance under which we will face". In other words, every day people are shocked because when they have thought a situation would make them happy, but that results to the opposite.…
Coping with stressful situations is never any easy task to resolve. However, applying the Coping Resources Inventory Scales can be utilized as an important instrument in helping clients’ gains control over their situation. The Coping Resources Inventory serves as a basis of measuring different forms of determining alternative measures for individuals who are dealing with stress in their lives. From a counseling perspective, the (CRI) can assist clients’ with learning to face their individual challenges and provide coping mechanisms that can help reduce or eliminate the impact that stress has on their individuals lives.…
The same stressor could not affect one person, but could cause a different person stress. This is because the same stressor could happen in a different context, causing people to be differentially vulnerable to stressors (Lecture). Stress that is experienced does not always lead to distress. Coping strategies are a tool that can help to reduce the amount stress that ends up affecting someone’s health. Problem-focused coping strategy works on eliminating the stressor.…
It is common to appreciate how people become pessimist and often depressive when adversity meet their lives. According to Seery (2011) “…some theory and empirical evidence suggest that the experience of facing difficulties can also promote benefits in the form of greater propensity for resilience when dealing with subsequent stressful situations.” (p. 390)…
It may seem that there’s nothing you can do about stress. But you always have more control than you might think. Stress management starts with identifying the sources of stress in your life. For example, in dealing with an exam as a stressor, different people will have a range of different coping responses. Problem-focused strategy has three steps-taking control, information seeking and evaluating the pros and cons. Comparing with the emotional-focused strategy, as a manger, I would personally prefer using the problem-focused strategy in coping with stress, since it can high effectively removes the stressor, and deals with the root cause of the specific problem. This way, it will provide a long-term solution. In contrast, emotional-focused stragety means the reduction of negative emotional responses associated with stresses, for example embarrassment and anxiety, is less effective than using a problem-focused strategy. Reasons are emotional-focused strategy are more focused on emotions, rather than the actual root cause of the problem therefore it cannot provide long-term solution. As a manager, I would ensure my employees are using the problem-focused strategy in the following way-figure out what is the root cause of the problem, and try to motivate employees to change the relationship between themselves and stressor, for example, escaping from the stress or removing the stress; Secondly, I will make sure if my employees really understand the situation for example using the internet, and help them solving the problem, so that to avoid having the same problem in the future. Finally, I will let my employees to analyze and evaluate the pros and cons of the problem and figure out different options in dealing with the…
Brickman, P., Rabinowitz, V., Karuza, J., Coates, D., Cohn, E., & Kidder, L. (1982). Models of helping and coping. American Psychologist, 37, 368-384.…
Trials and hardships test and shape us as we learn from our experiences of dealing with them in our everyday lives, increasing our inner strength and understanding. Trials and hardships such as minor inner conflicts like what to wear or what to eat for breakfast, to extreme external conflicts such as war. (eg. Terrorist attack 9/11 we can see how it has affected people positively and negatively). Although a person might not be aware of inner conflict, it is often revealed in their reactions. Reactions such as deny, avoid and escape. We pretend that things are ok when they aren’t and we pretend that we are ok when we aren’t. We avoid anything that brings us close to our grief and we look for ways to escape. Our escape may involve drugs, alcohol, people, work, overspending or over eating. Many of these examples can be seen in the lives of the celebrities that are plastered all over our media. Lindsay Lohan being thrown into a behavioural correction centre, marriage break ups such as Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston’s and mental breakdowns such as the few that Brittany Spears had. Actions taken in moments of grief and pain are often actions we live to regret. We panic and run away. We break a relationship. We forsake a commitment. We withdraw from people. We hurt ourselves. Just like these celebrities did. In some way we are always actively responding to difficulty.…
This chapter also describes coping. Coping by standard definitions means ‘to contend on equal terms’, exactly what someone needs to do with Difficult People.…
Lazarus and Folkman’s transactional model of stress has two appraisals: primary appraisal and secondary appraisal. Stress is a two way process because the environment produces stressors and individuals find ways to cope them (Anwar & Jan, 2015). During the primary appraisal the person appraises the situation as threatening, good, or harmful. For example, a man has chronic illness and is always sick. He feels guilty for his family who takes care of him and also feel depressed about his illness. He even has suicidal thoughts to discontinue his painful life and relieve this family. Guilty, depression, and sickness are the stressors for this man. During the primary appraisal, the man thinks the stressors are harmful…
You are absolutely correct. He is not only in danger of losing his marriage, but at a risk of loss his job as a truck driver. You bring out an important point that you will help Kenneth to find better was about coping with his problems. A counselor providing coping skills will help client use those coping skills when they need them. thank for sharing once again.…
Bibliography: Billings, A. G. (1981). The role of coping responses and social resources in attenuating the stress of life events. . Journal of Behavioral Medicine,, 13: 539-547.…
Resilience and coping in particular can help as we face the obstacles of reality. Understanding that resilience, or “Approaching life’s challenges in a positive, optimistic way by demonstrating self-control,…
Mental health concerns, such as social and relational stressors, is an essential issue in teens, and research has found positive coping skills can help these students through the difficulties of high school stress (Kadhiravan & Kumar, 2012). As discussed earlier, cyberbullying may have psychological impacts such as stress, depression, anxiety, anger, school failure, and even suicidality. At these students young age, positive coping skills may not be part of their inventory of skills, hence, there is a need to understand how these students currently cope so we can greater assist victims and potential victims of cyberbullying gain the skills they need to be resilient. During this study, three major themes about coping styles emerged: problem avoidance social support and externalization. Of the three emergent coping styles for these students, social support is the most positive way to deal with conflict in the long term. Problem avoidance and externalization (yelling/ working out) may deal with the situation in the short term, but may hinder solving underlying…