Dating Speech

1. Intro * Don’t you hate it when you walk by someone that cute boy or girl you want to talk to but you just don’t know how to approach them? * Are you afraid of being rejected? * Asking a girl or guy out and keeping them interested is a very hard thing to do now a days. * P.S-I want you to understand the personal characteristics that lead to a successful date. * Thesis-The ways to go about dating him/her start with confidence, composure, availibility, and most of all being yourself. 2. Confidence * Having confidence is key to the start of any relationship. * Without the confidence to leave your comfort zone, don’t count on any passionate relationships. * Just having the will to talk to the person you want is a lot to ask, let alone make casual conversation. * As you know, first impressions are very important and no one finds a stuttering, shaking and nervous guy or girl very appealing to talk to. * So when you get on the big stage, be confident in yourself and act as though your encounter with them is no big deal. * Whether you talk to them in class, or the lunch line, talk about things you know, because getting stuck with nothing to talk about can become very awkward. Talk to them about events going on at school, or even talk about what is for lunch! Just talking in general will ease your tensions!
3. The next step is how you are composed while talking to that special someone.
A.Girls, When you act spazzy and giggly, its really a turn off to guys.
B. Don’t get me wrong, Guys love making girls laugh, its probably the best thing a guy could do, but don’t spas out and turn a normal conversation into a train wreck.
C. According to Melissa Walker from Girls Life magazine August 2009 issue, “Girls will do anything to help themselves get the attention away from other girls, but little do they know, guys don’t really like that”.
D. On the other hand, Guys, don’t let little things bother you, especially around girls.

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