Different Communicative Styles Between Men and Women
rentA wise man once said "the biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation—or a relationship." We all know that a lot of things affect the way of communication. Where we're from, or our educational background, or, of course, our gender. thus, men and women differ in their ways of communication, that is, the difference can be seen clearly In their daily conversations and even in their way of complaining about a problem.
It's a common sense that women are more talkative than men. That is, they tend to be indirect in their ways of talking. In other words, they don't state what they want to say; they imply it instead. For instance, when saying the weather is nice. Men tend to say it directly, "it's a nice weather." While women tend to use tag questions, "it's a nice weather, isn't it?" which may lengthen the conversation a little bit. Also, when a woman faces a problem, she tends to say everything that bothers her even if it sounds irrational and she brought it to herself or whatsoever. She doesn't look for a solution or a reasonable opinion; she just needs to blow off some steam and a shoulder to cry on. In addition, when women want something, they tend to use many questions that give hints of what they want, instead of stating it directly. For example, instead of saying, "let's go out." A woman may tell her man, "isn't it a lovely day for an outing?" or "don't you ever get bored staying at home all the time" or anything like that.
On the other hand, men tend to speak directly and state what they want to say. They are usually brief in what they're saying. That is, instead of saying "it's a nice weather, isn't it?" they just say "it's a nice weather", where no respond is needed—which is kind of obligatory in tag-question statements--. Moreover, when men face a problem, they usually act instead of complaining about it, and when they complain, they usually seek a reasonable solution. Even when they want something,
It's a common sense that women are more talkative than men. That is, they tend to be indirect in their ways of talking. In other words, they don't state what they want to say; they imply it instead. For instance, when saying the weather is nice. Men tend to say it directly, "it's a nice weather." While women tend to use tag questions, "it's a nice weather, isn't it?" which may lengthen the conversation a little bit. Also, when a woman faces a problem, she tends to say everything that bothers her even if it sounds irrational and she brought it to herself or whatsoever. She doesn't look for a solution or a reasonable opinion; she just needs to blow off some steam and a shoulder to cry on. In addition, when women want something, they tend to use many questions that give hints of what they want, instead of stating it directly. For example, instead of saying, "let's go out." A woman may tell her man, "isn't it a lovely day for an outing?" or "don't you ever get bored staying at home all the time" or anything like that.
On the other hand, men tend to speak directly and state what they want to say. They are usually brief in what they're saying. That is, instead of saying "it's a nice weather, isn't it?" they just say "it's a nice weather", where no respond is needed—which is kind of obligatory in tag-question statements--. Moreover, when men face a problem, they usually act instead of complaining about it, and when they complain, they usually seek a reasonable solution. Even when they want something,