Media identifies friendship in three types: reciprocity, receptivity and association. Friendship of reciprocity focuses more on equality, each person shares equally in giving and receiving in a relationship. Friendship of receptivity is the opposite. It is an inequality in giving and receiving. It’s a good inequality because each person in the relationship gains something. Friendship of association is described as a friendly relationship than a true friendship because there is great trust in the relationship.…
In Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics, he states that there are three types of friendships that can be obtained- the friendship of pleasure, the friendship of utility and the friendship of good. The friendship of pleasure is a relationship based on the simple enjoyment of being around a particular person; the friendship of utility is a relationship based on convenience. In other words, this friendship has no real meaning behind it, other than this person is around this person frequently, so they might as well be friends. Lastly, the third category of friendship is that based on good. Friendship of good is the pure delight of one person and everything about that person. Good is the best form of friendship because it is the most virtuous. This…
Aristotle states that utility friendships are the ones with the most complaints (1162b5). To me, this is one of the most important topics Aristotle has stated so far. I had a friendship in high school which I can now define as a utility friendship. We both used each other just for the fact that we could benefit off of one another. She gave me rides places and I gave her someone who she could vent to about all of her problems in life.…
“Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much.” is said by Helen Keller. Everyone needs others help and become more powerful. Without the support of others, personal embitions cannot be fulfilled. We all need a good friendship to be powerful and needs this power to overrides other people’s personal embitions.…
Friendship is a virtue or at least involves virtue. Friendship is always a special thing but people tend to forget about how much its value is. Friendship is not just necessary, but also noble.Friendship consists of goodwill between two people. You can only have a few friends being that its take some precious time to build a real friendship. Aristotle’s speaks about how there are three kinds of friendship. The first is friends of utility, where both people receive some benefit from each other. Aristotle believed that this is the type of friendship that is for the old. Aristotle argued that they “are at such a time of life pursue not what is pleasant but what is beneficial.” The second is friends of pleasure, where both people are attracted to each other, good looks, or other their pleasant qualities all together . aristotles says this friendship is for the young. Aristotle argues that the young because “...quickly become friends and quickly stop...” and “...love and stop loving quickly...” The third is friends of excellence, where both people admire the other’s excellence and help one another strive for excellence. Aristotle says this about friends of excellence “...complete sort of friendship between people who are good and alike in virtue...”friends of virtue or excellence is hard to come by especially in the world we live in today because it is so much individualism. According to Aristotle the first two friendships are accidental, because in these case friends are only thinking about their own utility and pleasure, not are going to change over a period of time. If a friendship is based on excellence it will be a long lasting relationship, because excellence is a quality. This kind of friendship is the one everyone wants to have and it overlooks the other two friendships. This kind of friendship though is hard to find and takes a lot of time to progress but it is worth it. It is nothing like having a real and true friend. Friends who want the same thing will…
had all of the other good things in life. He also describes friendship as a…
Aristotle, a pupil of Plato is one of the greatest, ancient Athenian philosophers. Nicomachean Ethics is Aristotle's most advanced work on ethics. In fact, Nicomachean Ethics was written around 340 BC. It is most likely to have been named after either his father or son, who were both named Nicomachus. Undoubtedly, friendship is one of the most important elements in the books of Aristotle's ethical principles. Out of the ten books of Nicomachean Ethics, only books eight and nine are on the subject of friendship. Friendship is defined as "the relationship with a person you know well and regard with affection and trust." (Askme.com Online Dictionary: http://dictionary.ansme.com/). "Self-love is defined as concern with only your own wishes and desires." (Encarta Online Dictionary: http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/Dictionary/DictionaryHome.aspx). In natural human nature, people do not want to be lonely. They have an urge to socialize and affiliate, as mankind is a social and political animal. "People are by nature political animals." (Aristotle. Politics i.2.9. 1252). Moreover, friendship is equal to self-love because in true friendships one will love his/her friends as he/she loves him/herself.…
Montaigne and Emerson both wrote philosophies that introduced their perspectives on friendship. The main topic that both philosophers explore in their essays is how friendship can influence a person’s growth. Although both philosophers analyze the effects of friendship, they present their arguments differently.…
Cicero urges that people put friendship before everything else, but this is where the contradiction in his words and thoughts lie. If friendship was said to be the greatest gift given aside from wisdom, then why did men only befriend those who benefit him? By befriending someone who subsidizes the friend, money, wealth, power and status is being put before friendship. Greed seems to be the common theme in each view on what a friendship should be. Although Cicero has good intentions in this dialogue, there are…
Aristotle was a man of philosophy, science, and mathematics. He used these three tools to explain what he thought the purpose of being a human being was, and just what being a human being entailed. To describe what a human being was, he came up with many theories, which involved friendship, happiness, and human nature. He also believed that not everyone was a perfect human, meaning, there were things an individual must do throughout his or her life to achieve becoming a Good person and ultimately becoming a happy person. Throughout this paper, I will be explaining what a full human life really is and then critiquing some of Aristotle's beliefs about human nature. I may agree or disagree with some of his points. The fact remains, I will use my own views in many cases to defend my points because to me, that is the point of this paper and the class, to understand a way of thinking, and argue for or against that way through the use of philosophy and intellectual thinking.…
Throughout history, friendship has played a great part in everyday lives. It is known by many that friendship is a very important part of any human’s life because without friends humans would be lonely and depressed. Through the conflicts that have occurred in both short stories, the true character of a loyal friend is what completes what is called true friendship. Friendship is basically the theme of both short stories,”Damon and Pythias” which was written by William Russell and “Two friends” which was written by guy de Maupassant.…
The concept of Amicitia according to Cicero describes the true nature of friendship, which is conceivable only between good men who are virtuous and who follow the nature. The more man is virtuous the more he can become a true friend. Then if the virtue is the basis of true friendship, it should not be focused on material things than the other can offer to their friends. The friendship of Cicero goes on to describe the bonds of friendship among the less significant that man can give, but it becomes durable the more men are related to each other. No matter what happen if it is bounded in authentic friendship, then it will not be deteriorating of anyone else.…
In his Nichomachean Ethics, Aristotle develops a robust definition of friendship. His definition provides distinctions between the true and perfect form of friendship and other inferior likenesses. Not only does he provide a framework for personal relationships, Aristotle also defines several different forms of constitutions and integrates friendship and justice into each. In light of his explanation and praise of monarchy, Aristotle agrees with Plato’s ideal of a philosopher king. Before such an argument can be made, a summary of Aristotelian friendship must be discussed as well as a comparison of his forms of government and the relationships of friendship and justice in each.…
In Aristotle’s book, The Nicomachean Ethics he discusses a variety of subjects that are mostly based upon finding your virtuous and moral character. One of the virtues that really stood out to me was his examination of friendship. Although Aristotle seems to be more interested in distinguishing the various forms that friendships have , his main theme in Books VIII and IX is to show the compatibility of the relationships between virtuous activities and friendship. He breaks down the different types of friendship into three categories: utility, friendship of pleasure, and a virtuous friendship. When two people realizes that the other person has a good character, and spends time with one another, engaging in the same activities that illustrates…
We learn to make friendships as young as 3 years old, it just becomes pure instinct as we become older. As humans, we need love and belonging, its one of the basic rules for survival in Maslow’s hierarchy. but it is not that easy, one of the mistakes we make as humans are our judgments; we judge things right away without even thinking about it.we all progress at different rates for many different reasons and judgment, especially misjudgment can affect our outlook; it affected mine.…