I displayed openness with my accepting body language which was relaxed and opened. I tried my best to follow the SOLER acronym that was described by Gerand Egan (1994) in Attending and Listening by Murphy and Dillon (2003). I displayed respect by keeping eye contact with my client to make sure she knew I was listening as well as using gestures throughout our sessions such as saying "okay" or "mhmm" to show that I am listening. Furthermore, actively listening to a client can exhibit respectfulness because showing that what they have to say is valid and important despite what internal noises I may be dealing with. There will always be differences between my clients and I, even though we may appear to be similar to each other. I believe that it is how I deal with these differences that matter. I know I will experience differences that will cause myself internal noise throughout my practice but I find that if I try to ignore my internal noises and just direct my attention to my client that it will be more beneficial to my client. I am not saying I should avoid my internal noises all together but rather focus on my client during our sessions then work on and reflect why I was experiencing those specific internal noises
I displayed openness with my accepting body language which was relaxed and opened. I tried my best to follow the SOLER acronym that was described by Gerand Egan (1994) in Attending and Listening by Murphy and Dillon (2003). I displayed respect by keeping eye contact with my client to make sure she knew I was listening as well as using gestures throughout our sessions such as saying "okay" or "mhmm" to show that I am listening. Furthermore, actively listening to a client can exhibit respectfulness because showing that what they have to say is valid and important despite what internal noises I may be dealing with. There will always be differences between my clients and I, even though we may appear to be similar to each other. I believe that it is how I deal with these differences that matter. I know I will experience differences that will cause myself internal noise throughout my practice but I find that if I try to ignore my internal noises and just direct my attention to my client that it will be more beneficial to my client. I am not saying I should avoid my internal noises all together but rather focus on my client during our sessions then work on and reflect why I was experiencing those specific internal noises