The Office of the Comptroller of the Currency (OCC) recently issued itsSemiannual Risk Perspective, which discusses risk concerns for national banks and savings institutions.…
moved on and accept it happened. In his chapter he gives the thought of ‘you can’t cry…
no hope. Sadness will never completely go away but it will be in the background if you…
sometimes the only thing that can save us is letting go off the past and trying to…
When people enter into any new relationship, they come to the new with a lot of old fears and unhealed emotional wounds (Daniel Sugarman p757). For example, I had an ex-girlfriend that goes by the name Maria. She was the last girl that I was intimate with before my wife Anita. Maria and I went our separate ways, because she did not want permanent commitment for the second time. Therefore, I moved forward without her, because I was in search of a soul mate. Six months later, I met Anita while attending an Emergency Medical Technical course at Southwestern College. Ironically, we were taking the same course with similar backgrounds; prior work history in medical field. Shortly after, we became study partners, and then passionate companions. Six months later, we got married and had two beautiful girls. Ten years later, I received a friend request via Facebook from my ex-girlfriend Maria. Secretly, I accepted the request; therefore Anita would have been upset, if she found out about Maria. Three months passed and Anita is still not aware of my friendship with my ex-girlfriend Maria. Then one day, I forgot and left my Facebook account unlocked; Anita found out the wrong way. It was a day I will never forget; I could not sleep for weeks, because I would be reminded of my treachery. As a result, I closed my Facebook account and never spoke to Maria…
Now I sit alone with my mistake. Now I have to forge hope out of my beaten-down heart.…
I had gotten a lot of scars by friends, co-workers and family. I know that I don’t have to meet and make relationships with almost all people who gave me the scars. However, until now, I cannot forget the bad memories and overcome it.…
Breakups suck. I've come to realize that what I have been going through is very normal. Just seeing what my friends have been going through has made me see that it is normal to have a person you can never get completely over. No matter how hard you try to move on from this one person there will always be something there. It is not obsessive or overly attached. You come across someone who throws you off your original course completely out of nowhere and you will never be able to get back on that original course. That person changed everything. This person I was very close to. I have never been as close with anyone as I was with him. I told him things that I never even told my closest friends. I honestly feel like I will never be as close with…
The most important factor in healing from grief is not grieving alone. Grieving with others will enhance your healing process. Involving others will help you feel connected with another human being, something that greatly aids healing from grief. Below are some great sources of support to help you heal:…
Give ourselves time and recognize that healing from most hurt requires time and change. Healing does not occur overnight and there are situations that we must learn to change and be able to view things in a different manner.…
He/she can talk to clergyperson or join grief groups in the church. The grief groups can be not only in churches, but also in local mental health department or local hospitals. The second resource is grief counseling. Person can talk to the counselors in private practice, online, or in local phone directory. Dr. Gary in his article “Resources to help with grief. Let 's share” (2011) states “Talking is an essential element of the grieving process!” (para. 5). Consequently, talk to family or friends. Grievers need to divert their attention away from the grief. It will be useful to read poetry or books, exercise, listen to music, engage in social activities, eat healthy and good food, and take time to…
Firstly, I am deeply saddened that we have not been able to talk, and attempt to have some dialogue with the hope of closure and peace for both of us. I understand why this would be difficult for you given how our relationship ended, and I take responsibility for this. I acted out of hurt, anger, and I dug my feet in without also considering the impact on you. Instead of applying compassion and understanding towards you, I acted with only my interests at stake, and for this I am deeply sorry.…
These are the tasks you must accomplish in order to work through your grief. It isn't always easy, and each person must accomplish these tasks in his or her own time. But each task must be accomplished in order for you to heal and move on with your life.…
Dealing with the death of a loved one causes emotional hardship while adjusting to life without the deceased. A person must practice ways to cope with the death of a loved one to restore his or her emotional equilibrium. Crying is a common and effective way to cope with death (Dyer, 2002). This is an exceptional practice when a person has lost someone deeply cared for. Remembering the good and bad times shared is important and can be comforting. Crying can be expressed through both tears of joy and sorrow.…
Emotions often take over the best in individuals. Being able to deal with pain, sadness, loss and suffering is a long hard process for anyone to go through. The moment a person close to an individual, whether it’s a family member or loved one, is torn away it may seem as though it is all too much. There are many feelings and different stages to come along with bereavement; different stages that include anger, depression, denial and realization. Happiness and joyfulness are things that are virtually never felt through this. Bereavement is a long and hard emotion to overcome but often leads to acceptance and resolution.…