but we must try to embrace it. Always be the best you can be and when people put you down…
While it is important for an individual to have a high self-esteem in order to fulfill his or her goal, it is also important to know one’s weaknesses and respect the capabilities of others. Jean Twenge demonstrates this idea in her essay,“An Army of One: Me,” and shows how having high self-esteem without a solid basis for it can lead to children who feel superior to others. In contrast to the egotistical people illustrated in Twenge’s essay, in his essay, “Wisdom,” Robert Thurman discusses how the process of reaching enlightenment is difficult, but once achieved leads to a compassionate life where an individual can feel empathy with others. Subsequently, in her essay, “Selections from Reading Lolita in Tehran,” Azar Nafisi focuses on teaching…
The work “Mine is better” that is in the textbook “Beyond Feelings” by Vincent Ryan Ruggiero is written to talk about the mind frame of a child up to adulthood of the “Mine is better than yours” concept. In this work it specifically discusses how we go from childhood to adulthood always wanting the better and best things in life. It displays the competition of growing up with people to compete with and have the better things than that other person has. In this work the author is trying to explain the mindset and why people choose to boast about having better from crayons, shoes, and cars.…
* If they’re supposed to die, they’ll die, and if they’re not supposed to die, they won’t. There’s no way to prevent death, so they might as well face it.…
“The test of our progress is not whether we add more to the abundance of those who have much, it is whether we provide enough for those who have little.”…
We received our semester long essay project, which involved writing ten different two-page essays. The subjects of the essays had been chosen for us, and there were three installments to be turned in, one for each six week grading period. Along with that assignment, we were also given three separate book reports to write along with an in-class performance of Antigone by Sophicles.…
“It is hard to fail, but it worse never to have tried to succeed.” Theodore Roosevelt…
“What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.” –Henry David Thoreau…
Whether an outcome is positive or negative it helps a person take in reality. This helps them improve their self-esteem and allows them to understand that failure is an option, and that is okay. When children are young, it is okay to give them a sense of encouragement. However, when it becomes excessive, problems tend to arise as those children develop. When parents and teachers condition their children to be special for no apparent reason, it takes their reality away. Twenge approaches this idea by saying, ”[c]hildren develop true self-esteem from behaving well and accomplishing things” (772). People need to understand that their actions can help improve their self-esteem. When people actually do things, no matter if they failed or succeeded, specifically in the short-term, they should feel a sense of pride in which they tried and put in an effort. By giving someone compliments for doing absolutely nothing does give that person a true meaning of why they deserve that compliment. In relation to Twenge’s view that self-esteem is developed by actions, Gilbert states, “[f]or positive views to be credible, they must be based on facts that we believe we have come upon honestly” (135). Individuals value the reasoning behind the compliments they receive. So, if young students are being told every day that they are special, with no actual evidence that they are, then that is going to negatively shape them as they grow older. They are going to anticipate their complements, which will tentatively lead them to become narcissistic. People must earn their compliments and receive awards based on facts and reason. The results of this will let people cope with the real…
When one tries and fails, one has gained more knowledge than the one who has not tried at all. The person who has tried, will instead possess a greater understanding over the one who has not. However, that person must have tried his best in order for this statement to be applicable. Therefore, i agree with this statement provided that the person has tried his best.…
An example of this is when my cousin has to work harder to concentrate for a test. He would get a phenomenal grade, but he always felt more accomplished than other kids in his class who got the same grade. This shows that the harder you have to try to do something than other people, the better you feel. I believe this is a law of life because it should inspire kids to overcome their own extra challenges to achieve something other kids might find easier. Kids who face extra challenges about themselves have to learn to think outside the box to accomplish their goal. The harder you work, the better you feel about…
From all of the Oklahoma writing standards given that need to be taught within World History, the teacher also needs to be an English teacher at times. In order to see students progress, the students need to write essays that show they know the material being taught. By constructing essays, the teacher will better understand how the student thinks and determine if the student is struggling with a certain topic within World History. Also through student participation methods, such as essays, the teacher must also make sure that the students can recognize primary and secondary sources, read graphs, and draw evidence from the text by actively reading the material . By being able to compose essays, it gives teachers a better sense of how a student is doing and also prepares the student for higher education and the real…
In life trying to master something does not just come out of no where. You actually have to try to get there and grow as a person with going beyond what you have already done. I do agree with this quote. To me growing as a person would be doing what you do best but bigger and better than before. Mastering something only makes you grow it would never bring you down as a person. The only way I can and will grow as a person is if I master my fear of being who I am. For example, I take what other people say to me serious and it only brings me down. To better my self i need to master my fear of taking what other people say about me and just build confidence and grow. Taking the opinion of others into consideration will not let me become…
This quote made me think a lot about the classes I would like to take in college. I am highly motivated with my work and I appreciate it when my classes tend to push me to do better. I know that I would not like my classes to become easier because of the type of students in my class. I, honestly, think that the students that choose to attend college really…
• It may lead to a lack of motivation as you will never merit any more than anyone else.…