I was nourished with love from my umbilical cord in my mother’s warm womb, spoon fed when I was able to feed and hand held when I could walk; I was akin to my parents from my conception, as I was their child. But, soon I was riding a bicycle by myself while my father stood and watch, I was placed on the school bus by myself while my mother waved me goodbye, in less than a year, my parents together will send me off to school by myself. From a tender age, still being a mere child, my parents have engraved the nature of independence in me, a key quality of maturity. An essential proponent of the transition to adulthood is obtaining true independence.…
illustrates the maturing of a young man. In the summer of 1944, Frank Arnold, a…
Not only students broaden their horizons and obtain useful knowledge; they also get a valuable life experience and make connections with new people. College helps students to be prepared for the adult life and teaches to be an independent and confident person.…
References: Allen, S. G., Clark, R. L., & Ghent, L. S. (2004). Phasing into retirement. The Industrial & Labor Relations Review, 58(1), 112-127.…
In my family we have a tradition of holding a rites of passage for the 13th birthday of any sibling in my family girl or boy. The purpose of the rites of passage is to mark the transition from childhood to adulthood, it also symbolizes for my family being dead to childish things and alive in more adult hood. For boys its learning how to become a True man, for girls its learning how to become a true women. A true man or woman and not what the society calls a "man" or "woman."…
Every year a class of high school seniors graduate and then begin their lives as adults. While the choices they made in high school are important, the choices they make after this will be of the utmost importance. A decision of how to start their lives as adults either joining the workforce, the armed forces, or attending college are the choices they have to make. A lot goes into which direction the student will steer his or her life. Pressures of going to college come from not only school teachers, but family, friends, and peers also. Teachers tell their students that college is the best way to go if they want to succeed in life, as many careers require further education beyond that of a high school diploma. Parents are always glad to see…
Explain how emerging Adults make the transition to higher education and work (Papalia, Feldman, & Martorell, 2014). When I initially thought about going to college, I was fifty years old. The truth is I am a License Chemical Dependency Counselor (LCDC), and have been in the counseling field for about eighteen years at the time. My manager and I were completing my annual review I was told without a degree my salary could not increase. My first thought was I am too old attended college. My manager educate me on something I was not aware, they could take my license however, my degree cannot. That did change the fears of returning to school since it had been thirty two years.…
During our life time it is inevitable that we will grow older. People 65 an older are living longer lives. This age group has been increasing over the years with the help of new technology. During this stage in life we will go through many life transformations. First we will change not only physically, but mentally, and emotionally, and socially. Our roles in life will change drastically and if not prepared it will not be a smooth transition. If a person was once very independent in their younger years and now will need to be dependent on others for assistance it could become a big problem. They may need help with basic daily health needs such as bathing, cooking or may need help getting around town. There are many assistant living facilities that will assist them if needed. Another issue in…
Do you remember the transition between being a teenager and becoming an adult? Not wanting to grow up and face the world on your own? I remember as a child I was unsure of what my life would consist of without my parents. Transitioning between having a silver spoon in my mouth to not depending on them. When I was a child, I was so naïve of the world not knowing anything of what life consist of. My entire childhood revolved around the idea that my life would always be easy, full of games, and not one single problem would ever be big enough to affect my life. Little did I know, the life I imagined would not be the case, and I would have to acknowledge that the sugar coating I had around life would eventually dissolve. During my early years of high school, my only concern was to fornicate with as many girls as possible, but as I started to get older my responsibilities started to expand. The last year of high school was my turning point, having to decide what career to pursue, what college I’d have to attend, and how to pay for my tuition along with rent. After graduating high school reality struck me, the idea of a perfect…
The transition from adolescent to adulthood is something everyone has or will go through in their life, in the new generation of Millennial this transition seems to be elongated and now referred to as “Emerging Adulthood”. Emerging Adulthood is a coined term by Jeffery Arnett for a new transitional period between adolescence and adulthood where people experience self discovery, instability, optimism, and self-focused in the ages of 18-25. This new transitional period is a phenomenon that only occurs within individuals in developed countries, middle class socioeconomic status, and most often attending a secondary school. It is a fascinating new time period in which has the media roaring in questions about what this will mean for the future…
As humans, we all grow into mature adults. As you know, adulthood is much different from your childhood. Grown women and men have different rituals and outlooks on their everyday life, that differ from a kid’s point of view. Along with being older, money, family, and love start becoming more important to you than ever. Responsibility and awareness are going to be more meaningful to you.…
Most adult students attend school for a purpose. They want to advance within their job, they are looking for a second career, or they would like to be able to communicate with their children that are in college. Most adult students do not have time to stay on campus and socialize as do their younger classmates which most of the time live on campus. This is one of the main differences between the young and adult students. Most adult students attend college and leave when it is time to leave. The young students have a purpose but also have time to enjoy the college life that surrounds them.…
There’s much more freedom, and time were you get to do what you want to do. Even though college costs way more you’re not obligated to go to classes, if you don’t want to go you don’t have too. “In high school, you're told what classes to take. In college, you get to choose; that is, as long as the classes don't conflict and you have the prerequisites and the classes aren't closed and you've paid your tuition” (Tang). There’s also a lot more responsibility that goes with this freedom. You get to choose if you want to stay in and do your homework on a Thursday night or go to a party. You don’t have your parents standing over your shoulder. The professors won’t give you extra time; they have a deadline and if you don’t have it in, it will be late and you can’t get around that. College is your first real taste at freedom, you get to be on your own. Some people prefer to be with their parents and have them do everything for them.…
Becoming an adult is a journey everyone should make at a certain moment in order to become the most they can be, to grow as an individual – mentaly and spiritually. Many people find it rather difficult and they are…
The time to become a successful adult is ticking down fast. The choices I make now will only affect me of what I want to accomplish in life, although I know it's going to be a long ride.…