Who among us wants to have a difficult life? Of course, everybody wants to be happy. We want that great job or a succesful business. We want to be married to Mr. Right or Mrs. Perfect and to have great kids. To have friends that stick by us come rain or shine. To be able to have all the material things life has to offer and have all our problems just disappear is what most of us want.
Everybody wishes for a good life. but it may be at different perspective. One person may define a good life one way and another may describe it another way. For one person a good life may be just having three meals a day and a roof over their head. For another it may be having a huge mansion and a couple of millions in the bank. But whatever your definition of it, there is perhaps one thing that you may have in common with many other people. To have that good life stress free, without having to work so hard or struggle so much for it. That is a normal human expectation.
Unfortunately, that is also what may be stopping us from having that great life. The thought of all that work, all the planning, overcoming hurdles and resistance is enough to make a lot of people give up before they even start.
In life we will have difficulties getting anything we want. It is very rare to get anything in life without some degree of effort. Only if you win the lottery will you have everything without effort and even then you still have to go out and buy the lottery ticket anyway, so it's not free at all.
At times, you may feel that it's all very confusing and just too hard. We've done all that we possibly could in our life whether it is at work or at home. But things don't always work out well us we planned or hoped and we don't understand why. But that's what life is all about. Life is hard, we have to accept it. Once we do, we will feel better about our circumstances. Then you won't think of your situation as anything but what is common to everyone. But we