love or money

Love and money, both of them are important for us, which is unquestioned. In the modern society, how shall we support our life without money. We can’t live without money. We can’t say anything of the higher pursuing without our basic needs is satisfied. So, money is important, money is necessary. And what does love do? Well, pure love can’t be obtained by money. It is affection, and the real affection is not in control of our body or brain. It seems to appear in nature. Love can’t be expressed by words but by hearts and action.

When the two are in contradiction, which one shall we choose? I think that the young who are in love with each other will fight for each other. They will work hard so they will get money to live a good life one day. But can we get love if we choose money? I don’t think so. Maybe we can have a rich and comfortable life. But the heart is empty. You can’t share the happiness with the one whose soul is connected with yours. Without love, we’re not living actually, just surviving.

I feel very sorry about current situation that most of us put money to the first place rather than love, friendship and other things. Though without money nothing can be done, I still insist that love is all the matters. We may get the things that we interested in after hard working, but we would never get the true love from the one who don’t love you. Love can bring you lots of things including money. But money can’t buy true love. So in this case, love is more previous than money.

Robert Warne Wilson (1926 – 2013), an American hedge fund manager, who owned 60 billions dollars, decided to end his life by leaping from the 16th floor of his apartment. He divorced and had no children. He did have lots of money, was he happy? Many cases like this told us that money is not everything.

Many moving stories also told us that love can create miracles. Owning true love, we will fight for each other. We can make money to provide each other a good life. We feel nothing is impossible. Maybe you will say that’s just a story and that’s not true. But how did it come out? Wasn’t it created by the wonderful imagination of human? And why can these stories be well-known? Because we choose to believe it, choose to believe in love. We desire to love and being loved deeply in our hearts.

Everyone of us has only one chance to live in the world. We bear without anything and die without anything either. The only thing we can take is our feelings, our memories, our love. So our wealth is true love, and nothing is more important than it

For these reasons, I think when I am making a decision between love and money, I’ll let love come first.