My Adult Attachment Style Analysis
My adult attachment style is secure because I am a trusting and committing person. I trust every person to the extent, until that person decides to betray my trust. Also, I am a committing person because if I have decided on something I will try my hardest and best to achieve that goal. An example of that is when I learned how to play the drums on my own. Although, many people doubted me that is nearly impossible to learn the drums on your own, I still was committed. At the end, I achieve my goal of learning the drums by listening to nonstop rhythms and songs. I do believe that my current attachment style is related to my relationship with my primary caregiver. Personally, I was taught as a young kid, that I should trust someone until they
have betrayed my trust. Moreover, I was also taught that you should always have a goal and be committed to the goal. Nevertheless, my mother has always trusted everybody she met, until that person did something to break the trust. Additionally, she is a very committing person, that if she has committed to something she will always fulfill the commitment; and also the commitment she makes to make the family happy 24/7. Therefore, I feel that I also have the attachment style of secureness because I am a trusting and committing person.
have betrayed my trust. Moreover, I was also taught that you should always have a goal and be committed to the goal. Nevertheless, my mother has always trusted everybody she met, until that person did something to break the trust. Additionally, she is a very committing person, that if she has committed to something she will always fulfill the commitment; and also the commitment she makes to make the family happy 24/7. Therefore, I feel that I also have the attachment style of secureness because I am a trusting and committing person.