Firoozeh Dumas, in the “F Word” essay written for Funny in Farsi: A Memoir of Growing Up Iranian in America (2003), explains first, what her, her family and friends names mean and what they were called from American people instead of their real name; second her new American picked name so she wouldn’t feel so foreign; third why she switched back to her real name because she wanted to be proud of her heritage. Dumas describes her name and how people always mess it up because it is foreign but has learned to deal with it and has found that “Americans are now far more willing to learn new names.” Her purpose is to show that we as Americans should care about the hard names more in order to let the foreign ones feel more welcomed and how she as…
people with unattractive names value them. Our names are much more than our identity , they…
After we are born, we receive our own names. Names are chosen not by themselves, but by their family member’s. That is the first gift the baby owns and of course, it is free, but not everybody takes the free gift if they don't like it. Just like me and the girl I had read about in the article, “My Name," by Sandra Cisneros. We both don’t like our names because our names are not English names; indeed, it’s the different culture name.…
I cannot seem to figure out if I like the name. Some people say that it’s a “girl’s” name, but in my opinion, the…
Firoozeh Dumas' essay, "The F-Word," addresses the very relatable struggle every person with an ethnic name faces in the American culture. Her prime example being herself, Dumas humorously and realistically depicts the trauma a person endures from constantly having to educate people about your name. She also uses the names of her siblings to provide a comparison of the names' meaning in Persian versus their American mispronunciations. Dumas' seamless use of analogies, word choice and quotations assists in her goal of making the reader understand and sympathize with her frustration.…
Jackson Dean - the first thing I ever learned about myself, something that has always been with me and will never change. Growing up with this name was very typical, it wasn’t like my name was something unheard of, of crazily odd, it was just normal. Other kids complained about their names and how they didn’t like them or how they sounded weird, but I never had that problem. To me, Jackson Dean is just a name passed down from previous generations, I never knew the true meaning of it, or why my parents picked it. Although, my parents did not choose my name because if it’s definition, or background, it is still very interesting to find out the true meaning.…
There comes a point in time in an individual’s life in which their name truly becomes a part of their identity. A name is more than just a title to differentiate people; it is a part of the person. In Lost Names: Scenes from a Korean Boyhood by Richard E. Kim, names play a major role on the character’s identities. The absence and importance of the names in the story make the story rich with detail and identity through something as simple as the name of a character. Names are a significant factor affecting the story and the characters throughout the novel Lost Names.…
Essay topic: We are interested in learning more about you and the context in which you have grown up, formed your aspirations and accomplished your academic successes. Please describe the factors and challenges that have most shaped your personal life and aspirations. How have these factors caused you to grow?…
How many uncomfortable situations would I avoid by changing it, or scraping it off of my life once and for all. I guess it would make a substantial 180 degree turn in my life, but I would rather get interrogated a thousand times than change my last name. Aside from being something I was immediately born with, it is one of the few things that define me as an individual. Though not many look at it my way, I proudly hold on to it due to the enormous significance it holds. This word is a synonym for family and unity, which is the foundation of everything around me. With this, being content is the most important aspect a person has to focus on. Personally, my family brings joyfulness into my heart and is the one that can push me away from darkness. They are the building blocks who have helped me grow and stood by me since I was first born. Metaphorically speaking, my last name is the honorable representation of who I am as a person and the relationship I have with the people around me. So, why would I give up something so precious for the avoidance of something so…
I was supposed to be named Rachel. It was a compromise, my mother told me, from what my dad had picked: Raquel. Growing up, I had a friend named Rachel that was nothing like me: soft, composed, and the sweetest smile. As it is hebrew, the name comes from the biblical name meaning “O Beautiful One” or “female sheep”. While this is nice and all, it was much more fitting for my friend. Never could or would I pick the animal the sheep to describe myself.…
My father once said, a name is the best gift for one child for it will follow you forever and ever. They told me, you might not notice how a name affects you, but it causes great disaster or luck to your life and it wont part you for not one day.…
There is an unfortunate reality in that there are millions of people around the world who are willing to do almost anything, even lose themselves, just so they can be accepted and become part of the crowd. To keep things in perspective, wanting to be accepted, wanting to fit in is not exactly a bad thing. In fact, it’s basic human nature for survival and social growth, and it starts at a very young age. During our developmental years, we feel the need to be accepted or be worthy of acceptance. This can’t be met when you are isolated, other people have to be involved if these needs are to be met.…
How does your identity make different? Everyone is special in their own way, all though they can be similar. My favorite color is purple, I've met people who dislike purple. Before I walked into high school I was considered a tall person at 5'4 ,but now I'm short compared to other people. When I was younger I used to live on a farm in South Carolina, my best friend was a chicken named May.…
Identity is something human beings hold dear. Humans are very complex beings and it is difficult to pinpoint exactly what makes up who a person is or can be. Now, the most common generalizations as to what makes up an identity are: personality, likes, dislikes, experience(s), religion, soul, memories and beliefs. A physical form isn’t mentioned; because the body is a temporary thing. A body doesn’t necessarily mean that it is part of the identity since; what will last forever in not the body but the impact left by personality or ideas, for they are everlasting.…
Everyone has something that defines who they are by the exclusive things they do. There are a wide variety of activities and hobbies that surround people’s everyday life. My life revolves around spending time with family and friends, going to school, and writing poetry. Without these things, I would not be able to set essential goals and a promising future for myself.…