conversation, if he had decided not to speak that day as well. I believe by allowing him to direct the session in play and conversation, he will sense freedom and communicate his unheard feelings, frustrations, aggression, fears, confusion or other potential emotions.
The other approach that I find favor with in play therapy is the release/structure model.
Depending on the circumstance, this type of directive play helps the child release any emotional affect. By creating an anxiety-provoking situation or a situation of the child’s issue at hand, it will help the child to express their emotions/feelings, as the therapist is listening and observing their behavior. In order to utilize this type of approach, a strong rapport must be established first, as the child releases their emotions, thoughts or actions. A good example of this type of therapy is when the therapist introduces a game (Pokemon cards & M&M’s) to a child and utilizes the game in a structured way to help the child to express
himself.
In my recent mock session with my classmate (Oscar), I was able to use the M&M’s colors as a way to ask questions about his feelings/thoughts. I also used the Pokemon cards to explore his values along with using it as a tool to help him in the area, he was struggling with (mathematical skills). While we had played these games, Oscar was able to express his thoughts and feelings, which were fundamental in the process of setting up his goals. Although this is a directive approach of play therapy, the therapist assumes responsibility for the guidance of the session, while there is no type of interpretation of the child’s play.