B.A.Cyxomjnhcknn, a famous educator of the former Soviet indicates in his children cultivation theory that family tops the list of tools that could shape children into something, followed by school, community, children themselves, books and other social factors. It clearly stresses out that family is one of the most critical factors to children’s growing up, if not the only one.so parents, the couple who generally act as the main part of most family and keep their children company most of the time from babyhood to adulthood, plays a significant role in influences on children. Just as the saying goes, parents are the best teachers of children.
First of all, the learning ability of children starts at such early ages that there are almost nothing but parents can impose effects on children’s level of intelligence. According to biology, the age group from 1 to 6 is the best period for children to develop all kinds of ability both physically and psychologically. The American psychologist Bloom also states that the IQ of the majority children are developed fully before the age 17. And among them, 50% is developed before 4, 30% more from 4 to 8, and only 20% is left to be developed in the last 9 years. All these makes it clear that parents’ deeds and attitudes towards children at their childhood greatly determines children’s mentality. Ill-fostered, children can be as fool as animals with little intellectual power. For instance, “the wolf kid “of India, who has not been with human but wolf until age 8, only had the mental age of 3 at his 17. However, things can be totally different if children are well cultivated by their parents, the example of Goethe speaks for it. As is mentioned in his memoir, Goethe suggested that it is the company and guidance of his father in his early childhood that helped with the development of his observation capability, public speaking skills and some other capacities. and with help of these and