Western Parenting Vs Chinese Parents

There are a lot of people discussing that how to educate their children in the best way from then until now. Parenting, which is very important and effectual to the children, influences children’s mental, emotion, thought and behaviours. There are two major distinctive parenting styles in the world, Western and Eastern styles. American parenting and Chinese parenting have a significant difference, which is talking about how they treat their children, expectation, and children’s freedom.
There is a different way about how they treat their children between American parents and Chinese parents. American parents like to award or praise their children. They agree compliment and encouragement can help the children develop the courage and self-confident.
American parents want their children to be independent. They hope their child can take care themselves in teenage and prepare to be an adult. Allowing their children finds a part-time and make money while they are able to work legally, so as to let them acquire working experience as well as time and money management skills.It may cause the teen finds what they are interested in or understanding the meaningful of studying and treasure it. On the other hand, Chinese parents do not create an opportunity to let their youth to be independent, since the Chinese traditional thought. They think their children owe them everything and the kids need to repay them in the future when the parents are retired, such as they have to give their parent a part of their wages every month. They are looking forward that the children live with them even he or she get married. Moreover, they want their children to do well or get an excellent grade at school, so they need their child to go to study or cram school after school. The Chinese parents’ expectation is wanting their children to be dependent and rich, but American parents’ expectation is wanting their children to be independent and
American parents are more gentle than Chinese. They allow their children do whatever activities, which is positive and the kids interested in, such as, American kids can play sports with their friends after school. Their parents do not concern about that if the kid can manage the study. In addition, they always communicate with their child about what the children want or hope. They can treat or talk with the others, like how they treat with their friends. They would not make a lot of rules to limit or control their about what they can or can’t do. They don’t force their kid to choose a major or job which they want his or her to choose. In the other hand, Chinese parents are more strict with their children. Chinese parents will make a lot of rules to limit or control their children, such as, they don’t allow their child to go to play after school before he or she finish his or her homework. It is because they want their children do well in all of the area and at school. They will not communicate with their children like how they communicate with their friends. They always order or yell at their children about what the child must do now. They will get pressure or force their kid to choose a major or job which they want his or her to choose. American parents give more freedom to their children, but Chinese parents only give a little freedom to their children.
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