Her approach to disagreements was to crack down hard on our other teammates, act out, and try to emotionally-manipulate the others into choosing her side over mine. It was hard to be yelled at, undermined and insulted. For a second, I thought about calling her the names she was calling me and talk over her, etc. To react with grace, kindness and professionalism, in the face of bullying, was one of the most challenging things I have ever done.
Over many meetings, I learned she had an autistic sister, her mother