Petruchio Abuse Quotes

In the play, The Taming of the Shrew, by William Shakespeare, Katherine Minola is known for her shrewish ways, such as her horrible temper. Petruchio, a gentleman from Verona, comes to Padua to marry rich so he can “wive it wealthily” (1.2.76). Once Petruchio meets Katherina, he decides to tame her, not matter how bad her temper truly is. During the process of taming Katherina, Petruchio uses a series of violent actions, including physical, emotional, and environmental abuse. During the 16th century, Petruchio’s actions may not have been seen as abuse, but 400 years later, his actions toward Katherina are considered as domestic violence in today’s society.
Once Petruchio marries Kate, he starts his physical abuse. Petruchio
plans to train Katherina into becoming a harmless housewife from her originally shrewish behavior. He decides to tame her to, “kill a wife with kindness, And thus I’ll curb her mad and headstrong humor” (4.1.206-207). After throwing their dinner away, he says, “She eat no meat today, nor none shall eat; Last night she slept not, nor tonight she shall not…” (4.2.195-196). By doing this, he will wear her attitude down, so she will be easier to tame. From the article, Definition and warning signs of domestic violence, they state various different ways of physical abuse, such as, “denying of sleep and nutrition.” If Katherina is deprived of food and sleep for a prolonged amount of time, the consequences may involve death, or serious medical injury. With today’s moral standards, Petruchio’s actions are noted as physical abuse.
Petruchio shows emotional and environmental harm towards Kate in several different ways and ignores her thoughts and feelings.
At their wedding ceremony, Petruchio comes in late and dressed in , “…old jerkin; a pair of old breeches thrice turned; a pair of boots that have been candle cases, one buckled, another laced, and old rusty sword” (3.2.52-54). He not only comes to his own wedding late, but humiliates her in front of her family. When the marriage ceremony is over, when they should be off to the dinner afterwards, Petruchio says, “But for my bonny Kate, she must be with me. Nay, look not big, nor stamp, not stare, not fret; I will be master of what is mine own” (3.2.244-246). This proves that Petruchio is controlling Kate, and does not let her make her own decisions. Kate did not want to leave after the wedding; she wants to eat dinner with her family and friends before she leaves. Petruchio’s behavior towards Katherina is abusive because he cares less about Katherina’s opinions and emotions, and more about his own
thoughts.
Although later in the story, Petruchio shows his love toward Katherina, he still does not have to tame her like an animal.
When Petruchio makes the speech about how to tame a woman he says, “My falcon now is sharp and passing empty, And till she stoop she must not be full gorged…To make her come and know her keeper” (4.1.188-192). He thinks of Katherina, a human being, as a mere falcon that will answers to his call once she is fully tamed. True, he decides to tame her for her own good, but ultimately the decision to change her personality from a shrew to a housewife is Katherina’s, not his. Petruchio could have also used different actions to try and change Katherina, instead of taking her most important items away; food and sleep. He could have shown his love towards her earlier and tell her that he only wants the best for her to push her towards the decision of changing her attitude. But instead, he uses abusive behavior towards Katherina. You can change someone’s personality in many different methods, but being abusive is not the correct
way.
In the Shakespearean era, treating a lady like this is considered as normal, but in the 21st century, women have more rights. Petruchio shows several violent behaviors, such as physical, environmental, and emotional abuse. He shows physical wrong doing by not giving Katherina food and little to none amount of sleep. When it comes to emotional maltreatment, he shows his abusive actions by humiliating her in front of her family and friends during their wedding. Then when the wedding is over, he starts his environmental abuse by not letting her stay at dinner with her family. Also, there are other ways to change a person instead of harming them. Petruchio could have tried to use his love as a reason to make Katherina a better person, but instead he abuses her into changing. With today’s laws and regulations, Petruchio’s actions towards Kate are considered as abusive.