Martin Buber was an Austrian born Israeli Jewish philosopher best known for his philosophy of dialogue. This philosophy was centred on the distinction between the I-thou relationship and the I-It relationship. According to Buber the sought for treasure, the fulfilment of existence, can be found right in the midst of genuine dialogue. The I-thou relationship is a genuine relationship in which partners are mutually unique and whole. I-It relationships are those relationships with things in the world, things which are seen simply in terms of a fixed meaning or function. Buber’s distinction between I-Thou and I-It relationships reminds educators that relying solely on I-It relationships in education fosters loss of humanity. “Without it man cannot live. But he who lives with it alone is not a man.” Therefore, in my opinion it is extremely important that the teacher develops a meaningful caring relationship with each of their pupil’s. Without human community and human culture we are nothing more than a bundle of unengaged capacities. Relationships are a central feature of humanity. They permeate and mediate a large part of our experience of growing up. Without a shadow of a doubt a teacher is one of the most important relationships a child will have throughout their childhood and for some children it may be the only stable relationship in their lives. As a future teacher, by building a strong stable relationship with my students their self-esteem and confidence will rise. Increasing a student’s self-esteem will result in increased achievement and increasing a student’s achievement will result in increased self-esteem. Buber uses a tremendous metaphor to show how a teacher can foster a magical relationship with their student.
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