qualities of good boyfriend
Jieun Lee
1415060
We all dream about our Prince charming. From an early age I was also always imagined about perfect boyfriend, but it was always hard to meet someone like him in reality. Therefore my expectation for good boyfriend has gradually diminished as I grow up. However there are two most important qualities which I would never give up forever. The first one is activeness and the second one is a common interest.
Activeness is number one essential factor in dating. The boyfriends who are passive don’t make a plan for dating. I don’t mean that the boys always have to make a plan. I can make a plan too. However when I make it over and over, he would think that making plan is my job. What was more is that he always answering “I don’t know.” or “Anything.” These things make me highly annoying as time passed and we will break soon. Whereas the man who is active makes a plan, always think about what to do and makes me happy in dating. In the long run, beautiful and happy dating memory makes relationship much more improve. Having a common interest is an indispensable part in relationship. It is important because without common interests what is there really to talk about? Maybe having no common interest would be okay in the beginning, but we both feel boring as time goes by. In addition we could fight because of the differences on thinking about the partner’s interest or preferences. Couples always want to have more time together. Therefore if I want to do something together I have to like kind of the same things. Thus common interest is significant qualities of my future boyfriend. Clearly there are thousands of qualities for a good boyfriend. The order of priority could be differ from individual to individual. For me, I just need someone who can hang out with about same hobbies or interest. In fact, there are more than two things I care about, but without these two, I will never consider that man as my boyfriend.
1415060
We all dream about our Prince charming. From an early age I was also always imagined about perfect boyfriend, but it was always hard to meet someone like him in reality. Therefore my expectation for good boyfriend has gradually diminished as I grow up. However there are two most important qualities which I would never give up forever. The first one is activeness and the second one is a common interest.
Activeness is number one essential factor in dating. The boyfriends who are passive don’t make a plan for dating. I don’t mean that the boys always have to make a plan. I can make a plan too. However when I make it over and over, he would think that making plan is my job. What was more is that he always answering “I don’t know.” or “Anything.” These things make me highly annoying as time passed and we will break soon. Whereas the man who is active makes a plan, always think about what to do and makes me happy in dating. In the long run, beautiful and happy dating memory makes relationship much more improve. Having a common interest is an indispensable part in relationship. It is important because without common interests what is there really to talk about? Maybe having no common interest would be okay in the beginning, but we both feel boring as time goes by. In addition we could fight because of the differences on thinking about the partner’s interest or preferences. Couples always want to have more time together. Therefore if I want to do something together I have to like kind of the same things. Thus common interest is significant qualities of my future boyfriend. Clearly there are thousands of qualities for a good boyfriend. The order of priority could be differ from individual to individual. For me, I just need someone who can hang out with about same hobbies or interest. In fact, there are more than two things I care about, but without these two, I will never consider that man as my boyfriend.