This memorable passage that fostered independence in Jeannette comes in later in the book towards the end. Jeannette was upstairs with Robbie when he “pawed” her some. Her father didn’t come to the rescue, so she saved herself from being used. She swam. Rex actually says to her afterwards, “you might have been convinced you were going to drown, but I knew you’d do just fine,”(Walls, 213). Later on in the memoir, she heads off to NYC to live with Laurie and get away from her unstable family. She doesn’t really know how she’s going to survive once she gets there, but she takes the plunge and dive in headfirst. Again, she swims.
Although “sink or swim” can be applied to anyone’s life, it held a place in my life even before I read the memoir. This advice has been given to me in a similar way to Jeannette, when my brother tried to teach me how to swim by