The first, and in my own opinion, most important event in the play that made me sympathies with
Blanche was the death of her husband Alan Grey. This was a vital turning point in Blanche’s life and where her disintegration began. Blanche mentions her late husband several times in the play, and at one point reacts negatively to it by saying she’s “going to be sick”, her physical reaction standing as evidence that she is more than just emotionally affected, attracting a lot of sympathy from the reader.
As time passed, her loneliness grew, and as women at the time were very dependant, she wanted to fill the void of her anguish and solitude, hence resorting to “intimacies with strangers”. She tried to develop a relationship like the one she has had in the past with Alan, however this couldn’t be because all in the men in laurel only took advantage of her desperate position, making her vulnerable and pitiful in the reader’s eyes.
When Mitch “stood her up” on one of their dates, Blanche was hurt but attempted to hide her pain behind a “tight, artificial smile”, implying that not only does she want to retain her dignity and hide her misery, but also she has encountered this situation many times and it has made her well-prepared for whatever may come and almost desensitized. One is regarded with pity when they attempt to numb themselves from feelings such as pain, sorrow, and misery.