Companionate love grows slowly over the years as lovers apply their attachment and caregiving systems to each other, and as they begin to rely upon, care for, and trust each other. If the metaphor for passionate love was fire, the metaphor for companionate love would be vines growing, intertwining, and gradually binding two people together.” (Page 125) “If passionate love is a drug, it has to wear off eventually, because no one can stay high forever. Passionate love does not ever turn into companionate love. Passionate love and companionate love are two totally separate processes, and they have different time courses.” (Page
Companionate love grows slowly over the years as lovers apply their attachment and caregiving systems to each other, and as they begin to rely upon, care for, and trust each other. If the metaphor for passionate love was fire, the metaphor for companionate love would be vines growing, intertwining, and gradually binding two people together.” (Page 125) “If passionate love is a drug, it has to wear off eventually, because no one can stay high forever. Passionate love does not ever turn into companionate love. Passionate love and companionate love are two totally separate processes, and they have different time courses.” (Page