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The book, Waiting, offers a glimpse at Chinese society during the late 20th century. The practices of love and romance that took place in the book significantly differ based on what cultural lens they are seen through. The practices of courting in China are much different than those of the US. According to the book, in China one cannot walk out in public with someone of the opposite sex and enjoy time with them without attracting glares from other civilians. However, in the US one can date whomever they want and do not have the negative stigma following them. Another cultural difference is in sexual intercourse, in China one must wait until they are married, whereas in the US, it has become the norm to have sex before marriage. Most importantly, divorces are majorly different in China than in the US. In China, Lin had to wait 18 years to get a divorce from his wife, but in the US divorces happen on a regular, day-to-day