When Gurov and Anna first indulge in their feelings for each other, Anna feels “…a sense of embarrassment…”(207). She had not explored feelings of this magnitude before, and acted as a teenager with their first love. Anna lacks confidence in herself as a lover to know how Gurov feels about her, and is “troubled now by jealousy and now by the fear...”. (209) This is surprising to Gurov, who had never dealt with a woman as inexperienced as Anna before; he did not expect her to react in such a way. He had only known women who were seeking pleasure, rather than intimacy and passion. As she becomes more aware of herself as a woman, her lack of self-confidence is evident when she becomes to think of herself as a “vile, vulgar woman whom anyone may despise.” (208)
Anna’s expectations of men are directly related to how her husband treats her. “My husband may be a good, honest man, but he is a flunkey!” Her husband does not treat her with the respect she deserves, nor does he shower her with adoring devotion. She feels as though Gurov, a typical man, will not respect her