The Paradox Of Narcissism Summary
Origin Narcissism “The Paradox of Narcissism” by John F. Schumaker targets the idea of promoting self-love and self-happiness as a social problem. Mr. Schumaker does not believe that this school of thought is a positive element in society as a whole. He believes that one should strive to better and promote happiness in others rather than just themselves individually. He see’s this as a product of western society that embraces the idea of I need to feel big and important in order to be an effective leader. “Changes in Narcissism” by Jean M. Twenge focuses on the spread of narcissism from past to present. He claims that psychologists agree for this trait to be completely negative. Narcissism is creating
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A narcissist may have a lot of "friends" at first but eventually they would grow tired of his countless "me, myself, and I" conversations. They soon realize that narcissists only care about themselves and are incapable of genuinely caring for other people and eventually want to walk out from their suffocating shadows. According to Kluger (2011), you're bound to fall in love with narcissists at hello but when you get to know them better, you slowly realize that they're actually quite unbearable. Their confidence becomes arrogance; charms turn to senselessness; smarts turn to conceitedness. They will talk endlessly about themselves, and never mind you. They have trouble working with others since they can't easily accept criticisms and negative feedbacks.Narcissists tend to have fewer friends in the long run because narcissism makes individuals feel superior, making it hard to treat others fairly. A narcissist believes that he is the "only one" and that he is special and unique, and no one is more superior to him. He feels an extremely elevated sense of self worth. He is grandiose, vain, and egocentric all at the same time. With these traits, narcissists are not capable of empathizing. A narcissist is not interested in other people; all he wants is their attention. He only thinks of what is most beneficial
A narcissist may have a lot of "friends" at first but eventually they would grow tired of his countless "me, myself, and I" conversations. They soon realize that narcissists only care about themselves and are incapable of genuinely caring for other people and eventually want to walk out from their suffocating shadows. According to Kluger (2011), you're bound to fall in love with narcissists at hello but when you get to know them better, you slowly realize that they're actually quite unbearable. Their confidence becomes arrogance; charms turn to senselessness; smarts turn to conceitedness. They will talk endlessly about themselves, and never mind you. They have trouble working with others since they can't easily accept criticisms and negative feedbacks.Narcissists tend to have fewer friends in the long run because narcissism makes individuals feel superior, making it hard to treat others fairly. A narcissist believes that he is the "only one" and that he is special and unique, and no one is more superior to him. He feels an extremely elevated sense of self worth. He is grandiose, vain, and egocentric all at the same time. With these traits, narcissists are not capable of empathizing. A narcissist is not interested in other people; all he wants is their attention. He only thinks of what is most beneficial